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This is my third article on the subject of everyone is you pushed out in this blog, so, once you’re done with this one, if you are still confused about this topic, you may want to check my article EIYPO What Does it Mean? And EIYPO is Part of the Law.

Interestingly, the EIYPO topic is probably the Neville’s teaching topic that triggers people the most. I remember a couple of weeks after I had published my first article on EIYPO, I received an angry email from someone threatening me to try to make me remove my article. Imagine that! Frankly, it made me laugh, but at the same time, you’ve got to wonder why the subject of everyone is you pushed out is so troubling for some.

So, yes, no doubt that some people get triggered by the thought that people who appear to be outside of them are just a reflection of themselves.

Something else that we observe in the manifesting community it’s that EIYPO is probably the most misunderstood teaching from Neville, so that term is misunderstood and misinterpreted a lot. We’ve noticed that recently, yet again, in my FB group, which motivated me to dedicate this whole week to the topic of everyone is you pushed out on my Instagram, my podcast, and video, besides this article here, in an effort to make it more clear to you, if you are still confused about it. I have not repeated myself in all those platforms but rather expanded on the topic throughout them.

EIYPO is Not About Manipulating Others

The moment you think of influence, you reduce a miracle to magic. All the people in the world are only yourself pushed out. – Neville Goddard , What Are You Doing – Lecture (1967)

A common confusion about EIYPO is that it can be a tool to influence people, as in “manipulating” them as if other people were puppets and you’re the only person with a mind. As you can see from Neville’s own words above, he never taught such a thing. The fact that people are us pushed out doesn’t mean that it’s a tool to manipulate people as we understand ‘manipulating’ from our rational mind and the tag that people have attached to this word. The truth is that we “manipulate” people ALL the time, whether or not we are aware of it, based on what we believe about ourselves and other people, but it’s not a magic stick.

What’s happening with people in the law of assumption community it’s that they are still new, and they are trying to conceptualize and rationalize some concepts of the law that cannot be conceptualized or rationalized from the ego mind and be fully understood, but this is what is happening with EIYPO and it’s why there’s so much confusion, misunderstanding, and misinterpretation on the subject.

So, what is EIYPO exactly?

We are All One

If you are familiar with spiritual law, you might have heard the phrase, we are all one, but what does it mean exactly? Is it a phrase that you’ve heard or read here and there, but without truly understanding the full meaning of it? If so, you might want to pause for a minute and truly understand what this means.

We are all one means that we are ONE Consciousness, one Awareness, and that consciousness or awareness is one and the same shared by all human beings. That’s why it’s important to notice that Neville said that people in the world are yourSELF pushed out. Not just you, but the SELF. That SELF is Consciousness, it’s Awareness, it’s God. The God that is in you is in me and in each single human being that has ever existed and will ever exist. While there seem to be a separation in bodies, there is NO separation in the source God. Zero. None. Nada. This is the part where the rational mind struggles a little.

It’s because there is only one consciousness, one God that animates everyBODY, that everyONE is yourSELF pushed out.

People are not you pushed out because you want to from your rational mind but by default, whether you want it or not. As long as you are in this human body, other people in your world will be mirroring your beliefs and assumptions about yourself and about the world in general.

So, when people get offended when they hear the term, everyone is pushed out, it’s because they are confused about the very source of this teaching. They see themselves as separated from others, but most importantly, they see themselves as separated from consciousness/from God. They are falling for this illusion because they do not understand that there is no separation from that source God and, thus, no separation from others. If you wanted to use this teaching to manipulate others, it would only result in manipulating yourself. So, no matter how you want to look at it, NOTHING is separated from you, and all will always come back to you.

The World is a Dream

The whole vast world is no more than man’s imagining pushed out. I must qualify that by saying that the world outside of man is dead. But man is a living soul and it responds to man. Yet man is sound asleep and does not know it. The Lord God placed man in a profound sleep and as he sleeps, the world responds as in a dream for man does not know he is asleep, and then he moves from a state of sleep where he is only a living soul to an awakened state where he is a life-giving spirit. And now he can himself create, for everything is responding to an activity in Man which is imagination. The eternal body of man is all imagination that is God himself. – Blake – Neville Goddard, Life is a Dream – Lecture (1959)

“The whole vast world is yourself pushed out,” “All the people in the world are yourself pushed out,” The whole vast world is no more than man’s imagination pushed out.” All of these quotes are saying the same thing. The world that we live in, which you may believe is separated from you, is actually not. We ARE the world, and the world is us. The world, the whole universe, is contained in you, not the other way around.

No wonder people are still debating which one came first, the chicken or the egg. Neither one came first, because consciousness is the only reality, we are both conscious of the chicken and the egg, they are equally present and they simply both ARE now in the present moment, because linear time is yet another illusion we’ve fallen into. “Man experiences a kind of optical delusion of his consciousness. Past, present, and future are illusions. Don’t be deluded by the appearance of things.” Albert Einstein.

Life can be compared to a sleeping dream. When you wake up from a dream, whether it was a good dream or a bad dream, YOU were the creator of that dream; that dream came from your consciousness. When you are able to control your dream while dreaming it’s called lucid dreaming, you become aware that you are dreaming while dreaming, and that allows you to take full control of the dream. It’s the exact same thing with the grander dream called life. When you are experiencing all kinds of unwanted things in your life, you ARE the creator of those unwanted things, they are coming from YOUR consciousness. When you awaken spiritually, you notice that you can now control your life much better.

As you start to become aware, though, as the lucid dreamer becomes aware that he’s dreaming (wakes up in his dream), you become aware that life is just a big dream (you become awake spiritually), and by changing the way you see the world and how you see yourself in the world, you can change and transform your life. By changing yourself, you are changing the world and everyone in it, which is just yourself pushed out.

Everyone is responding to what we are doing in our imagination. There is no outside world that is really alive. It depends for its aliveness on the activity of man who is a living soul. Man named the animals, the birds, the trees. Everything God became man as a living soul but he had to forget he was God to become man, and now man has to become a life-giving spirit where he knows that everything is an imaginal activity. Neville Goddard – Life is a Dream, Lecture (1959)

We were born with total amnesia, as Neville said, so we could start playing the game of life, being fully in the dream, and believing the dream. But our main purpose is to discover who we really are. Once we are awake, the law is a given, so our next goal is the promise. That’s why Neville, as a student of Abdullah, was this young man trying to figure out how he could make himself believe that he was already in Barbados while still in New York City, to a man that only cared about the promise towards the end of his life on this plan.

While we may not be at the promise level, yet, we can grow and come to more and more understanding of the law as we go. Everyone is pushed out is one of those things that we should strive to understand more fully.

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Everyone is You Pushed Out is Part of the Law https://www.manifestingwithsylviane.com/everyone-is-you-pushed-out-is-part-of-the-law/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=everyone-is-you-pushed-out-is-part-of-the-law Thu, 08 Apr 2021 15:01:57 +0000 https://www.manifestingwithsylviane.com/?p=759 I have already written an article on the subject of EIYPO (everyone is you pushed out) some 10 months ago when my blog was brand new, and I have to say that this is a very hot topic which struck a nerve for some. I even received a threatening message through my contact form on...

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everyone is you pushed out part of the law

I have already written an article on the subject of EIYPO (everyone is you pushed out) some 10 months ago when my blog was brand new, and I have to say that this is a very hot topic which struck a nerve for some. I even received a threatening message through my contact form on this site from someone who had read my article and who apparently was very upset about this EIYPO topic. Interestingly, this type of behavior in itself shows that this very topic was them pushed out. So, whether or not we like it or want to accept it, this is a fact. We are everyone pushed out, and the reason that we are, it’s because it’s part of spiritual law and what we like to call “free will” is just an illusion as Neville said. This, also, seems to trigger lots of people, but it’s only because they do not understand it.

So, in this article, let’s dig a bit more in this all fascinating subject of everyone is you pushed out, so you can understand it at a deeper level.

EIYPO is Part of the Law

The whole vast world is yourself pushed out. All that you behold, though it appears without it is within in your own wonderful human imagination of which this world of mortality is but a shadow – Neville Goddard

Interestingly, there are even some Neville Goddard’s students who are teaching the law who do not believe that we are everyone pushed out, and the reason why they don’t it’s that 1) they have forgotten this quote from Neville (above) or misunderstood it, and 2) they have failed to reverse-engineered their own life to see the evidence of that fact.

I am not going to repeat what I already said in my other article on this subject, so I encourage you to go read it once you’re done with this one if you haven’t read it yet, but in short, if the whole world is yourself pushed out, it’s because every single person that you meet in your world is YOURSELF pushed out. They are YOU pushed out. The main reason for this it’s that our consciousness is the ONLY reality, which means that we cannot manifest anything or anyone outside of our own consciousness. And even what seems to be other human beings which are separated from us, they are showing up in our world to play a role, and the role that they are going to play has to be in accordance with the content of our consciousness. Once you get that, the subject of EIYPO becomes clear and non-negotiable.

During my live Q & A on my paid Facebook group, yesterday, someone asked the question, “how does EIYPO work with other conscious manifesters? For example: if we were to meet in my reality, would you be an EIYPO version of Sylviane, while keeping your power in Your reality? How does all of this work between conscious manifesters?

My answer to this question was, yes, absolutely. No matter who that person is, conscious or unconscious manifestor, that person will be YOU pushed out. As an example, a few months ago, I had a client who I found out had a strong assumption that she was always disappointed and let down by people. Well, that assumption played out on me the first day I was supposed to call her for our coaching session. Even though I was aware that I had that client that morning, for some unexplainable reason, I had forgotten about her and didn’t call her for her session, which resulted in her being disappointed and let down, so she could send me an email to let me know about that. Thankfully, everything ended well, and that client even got another session with me later on feeling so much better about herself. But the point is that since like anyone else, I do not have free will, I had to play the role that she had me play in her reality, which was to disappoint her and make her feel let down. Thankfully she doesn’t feel this way anymore at all, so she won’t ever have anyone play that role ever again in her reality.

This example is an excellent demonstration of what EIYPO means. It is part of the law and none of us, whether we are the manifestor or the manifestee can escape this fact.

How People’s Behavior Toward You is a Reflection of You

As I said many times before, throughout my content on my videos, podcasts, and other articles, one of the best ways to learn about the law and to learn about ourselves in regards to the law is to reverse engineer our life. Once you go back to your own history you can see very clearly how you created your world and all the people in it. When I discovered the teaching of Neville Goddard and the law of assumption, I could see how my thoughts and assumptions about people had created the very behaviors that I feared and abhor from them, for the many years before I became aware of the law.

My poor concept of self along with my assumptions based on such a poor self-concept had been affecting all my relationships. Not just my romantic relationships, but my friendships, the people I worked with, my bosses, my neighbors… everyone. All the people that were part of my reality had no choice but to play the role that I had given them to play according to the content of my consciousness or awareness. Interestingly, when I started working seriously on my self-concept and self-love, all the people that I was meeting started to react very differently toward me. Just as it was true with my old self, it is true, now, with my new self. People in my reality are just playing the role that my conception of self is giving them to play. The rules have not changed, but “I” have changed.

So, keep this in mind at all times. Any time that someone is acting in a way that is not your preference, ask yourself the question, what is it in me that has manifested such behavior? That person who is acting a certain way towards you is just a reflection of your concept of self, and they have to choice but to play the role you have given them.

Once you change YOU from within by telling yourself a new story, the behaviors of other people around you will reflect that. I can’t count how many people have told me how changing their story and their self-concept have completely changed their lives and the behavior of others in their world. If you do this, you too will be experiencing an amazing shift in your reality.

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Do We Have Free Will? https://www.manifestingwithsylviane.com/do-we-have-free-will/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=do-we-have-free-will Thu, 11 Mar 2021 13:36:09 +0000 https://www.manifestingwithsylviane.com/?p=703 The subject of free will is definitely one of the most misunderstood concepts of the law of assumption. And with so many “law of attraction” coaches that present themselves as experts, saying that people do have free will, certainly emphasize the confusion. So, even though I’ve already written on the topic of free will before,...

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do we have free will

The subject of free will is definitely one of the most misunderstood concepts of the law of assumption. And with so many “law of attraction” coaches that present themselves as experts, saying that people do have free will, certainly emphasize the confusion. So, even though I’ve already written on the topic of free will before, in this article, I wanted to discuss it a little bit deeper for a full circle on this topic.

The Illusion of Free Will

The illusion of the free will to do is but ignorance of the law of assumption upon which all action is based. Neville Goddard

As you’re waking up in the morning you have the free will to decide if you want to get out of bed or not. Then, if you decide to get out of bed, you have the free will to decide what you want to wear and what you want to have for breakfast. You have the free will to be kind or to be rude to people, you have the free will to go for a walk or to go for a ride. You even feel that you have the free will to go for a particular career or job, and so forth. But even those smilingly choices are based on something much bigger than them, they are based on the STATE that you are in. Because the state that you are in will determine what actions you are going to take. In other words, the state that you are in will push itself out in your external world. And from there, the seemingly free will that you have is just an illusion as Neville said.

So, in the end, even the smallest actions that we take every day based on our “free will” are dictated by the state we are dwelling in.

In my last podcast where I was discussing states, I mentioned how once upon a time I inherited some money. However, because I had never left the state of being broke and the state of lack that I was in, that money that I could have multiplied by taking the right actions, was actually completely gone in about 4 years, leaving me even worst than before. Why did that money disappear rather than grow? Because from the state of lack that I was in, I kept making wrong decisions both for my business and other things. It would have appeared that I had the free will to make the decisions I made, but I didn’t. The truth is that I could ONLY make decisions based on my state of lack and being broke. That state drove me to take the wrong step every time, so I could get rid of that money as fast as possible. And I did.

This is how it works for everything and for every state. You are under the impression that you have free will, but you don’t. Your free will is one hundred percent dependent on your state. And you can’t possibly take action based on a state that you’re not in. This is why the state you’re in is of the utmost importance.

Do Other People have Free Will?

You do not have to be concerned about influencing others, as they are not the cause. Your imaginal act is! Those who have a billion dollars are not causing your world. You and you alone are doing it, and your imaginal acts influence people. Everyone is yourself pushed out, so when you imagine, you are influencing yourself. Neville Goddard

You are not forcing anyone to do anything. You are not influencing anyone. But, by law, people have no choice but to project your thoughts and beliefs back to you. The reason why this is the case it’s because they don’t have any free will. People in your reality don’t have free will. Not because we’re saying so, but because this IS so.

When you began that beautiful relationship with your sp, they were head over heels in love with you, but then that sp dumped you just a few months later for no logical reasons. This is the perfect illustration that people in your reality don’t have free will. In this case, you can see very clearly that your specific person doesn’t have any free will, but to play the role that you have given them.

Did you give them the role to leave you consciously? No, of course not, but you’ve given them that role according to the state you were dwelling in. Because you were dwelling in a state of not being good enough in all its multiple facets, you’ve manifested your partner getting colder and colder to the point of not wanting to be with you anymore. And one day, boom, your imaginal act hardened into fact, and they left.

Back then, you had no idea about what was unfolding behind the scene, but looking back, after having discovered the law of assumption thanks to your painful experience, you were able to trace back your thoughts and frame of mind, and now, you can fully understand what happened.

If instead of being in a state of not being good enough, you had been in a state of being complete, loved, and desired…, your sp wouldn’t have and couldn’t have acted the same way they did according to your state of not being good enough. This doesn’t only apply to our romantic partners, by the way, it applies to everyone in your reality. People in our reality will always mirror the content of our consciousness.

Every One Is YOURSELF Pushed Out

As Neville said, in the quote above, everyone is yourself pushed out, so when you imagine, you are influencing yourself, and by influencing yourself, you are influencing others by default. It is not a matter of deciding that you don’t want to influence people and believe that they do have free will, because THE LAW will contradict you. We influence people by default because of what we are imagining. Other people are never to blame, our imagination is. When people act a certain way towards you, you are the source of it.

As I have mentioned several times before in my content, I was the queen of creating people who betrayed me, abandoned me, disappointed me, and took advantage of me in one what or another. I had embodied the state of being a victim. So, for decades, I was the victim of people in my reality, never realizing that I was doing it to myself. I had created the subconscious belief, as a child, that people were not to be trusted and could be harmful, so they were. People in my reality had no choice but to play the role I gave them.

However, today, having embodied a completely different state, I do no longer create those behaviors. I do no longer imagine myself to be a victim, therefore, I am no longer one.

Your SP is Waiting for YOU

To attempt to change the world before we change our inner talking is to struggle against the very nature of things. Man can go round and round in the same circle of disappointments and misfortunes, not seeing them as caused by his own negative inner talking, but as caused by others. Neville Goddard

Every day I read people’s messages, emails, and other comments that imply that their sp is eluding them. But no one is eluding you but YOURSELF. The main reason why you’re not with your sp right now, it’s because you are dwelling in an opposite state from that which you need to be in order to manifest the relationship that you want. Your inner talking, your thinking, and your feelings are not matching your desire. This is the reason why you have the illusion that your sp is avoiding you, but the cause comes from within you.

So, if you want to be with your specific person, you need to start BEING with them in your imagination by embodying the state of being in that relationship. Once you embody a state within, your external world will match that state. Right now, you may believe that it’s up to your sp to come towards you, but the truth is that it’s YOU who is preventing them because you are not dwelling in a state that matches your desire to be with them. Thus, THEY, being YOU pushed out, have no choice but to be where you are keeping them. That situation is not caused by them, no matter how strong the illusion. It is caused by you. The moment you embody the state of your desire fulfilled, your state will harden into fact in your physical world. It will because it is law.

The power is within you. How you and other people react in your physical world is all controlled by your imagination. So just go there, and imagine what you want to be and have, and dwell in that state as much as possible. And no matter what your 3D circumstances look like at the moment, your inner world will externalize according to what you are imagining, regardless of any so-call free will, whether it’s your own or that of others.

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Everyone Is You Pushed Out (Explained) https://www.manifestingwithsylviane.com/everyone-is-you-pushed-out-explained/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=everyone-is-you-pushed-out-explained Thu, 11 Jun 2020 12:34:23 +0000 https://www.manifestingwithsylviane.com/?p=326 When we first hear of the concept everyone is you pushed out, we may completely miss what it means altogether, or maybe not fully understand it. With this article, my goal is to explain what everyone is you pushed out means, and discredit the so-called Neville Goddard ‘experts’ that are saying that Neville never taught such a thing. ...

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Everyone is you pushed out

When we first hear of the concept everyone is you pushed out, we may completely miss what it means altogether, or maybe not fully understand it. With this article, my goal is to explain what everyone is you pushed out means, and discredit the so-called Neville Goddard ‘experts’ that are saying that Neville never taught such a thing. 

Because, yes, they are out there and I am constantly receiving messages and emails asking me if what they are saying is true. This article will put this subject at rest for good.

Everyone is You Pushed Out, Not a Neville Goddard’s Teaching?

The whole vast world is yourself pushed out. All that you behold, though it appears without it is within in your own wonderful human imagination of which this world of mortality is but a shadow – Neville Goddard

Maybe those who are saying that Neville Goddard never taught that we are everyone pushed out don’t understand that the word “world” means. Well, according to a well-known dictionary, the definition of the word ‘world’ is: “The earth with its inhabitants and all things upon it.” That’s right, that’s what we understand by the expression “the world.” 

By “the world” Neville meant just that, everything and everyone in it. There no way around this. Except when we are speaking about the planet as the globe, every time we are using the term ‘the world’ we mean the people in it.

The world is yourself pushed out, or everyone is you pushed out is exactly the same thing. I hope this will put this debate to rest for good.

What Does Everyone is You Pushed Out Mean?

You have no life in my world save that I am conscious of you. You are rooted in me and, like fruit, you bear witness of the vine that I AM. There is no reality in the world other than a consciousness. Although you may now seem to be what you do not want to be, all you need is to change it, and to prove the change by circumstances in your world, is to quietly assume that you are that which you now want to be, and in a way you do not know you will become it.

There is no other way to change this world. “I AM the way” My IAMness, my consciousness is the way by which I change the world. As I change my concept of self, I change my world. When men and women help or hinder us, they only play the part that we, by our concept of self, wrote for them, and they play it automatically. They must play the parts they are playing because we are what we are. Neville Goddard – Lectures Volume 1

The basic concept of everyone is you pushed out means that the way people act, think, feel, behave towards you, etc. is whatever you assume to be true of yourself, of them, and of them in relation to you. Because everything and everyone exists only in your consciousness. Nothing exists outside of your own consciousness. 

This is why free will is just an illusion just like linear time. Everyone you meet (not just romantic partners) is an aspect of yourself – is YOU pushed out. 

People you work with, people you live with, people you meet, people you date, etc, are all a representation of yourself. The way they act towards you and the way they treat you is always in accordance to your consciousness. This is why you can meet someone who acts a certain way for a time, but then their behavior completely changes. They didn’t change on their own, they changed according to your own consciousness and beliefs about yourself, about them, and about what you expect of them.

For example, you were hired by a boss that’s seemed cool and even liked you at first, but then because of your own subconscious beliefs/your self-concept, their behavior towards you changed. They became unfair and mean, and they ended up firing you.

You meet a wonderful romantic partner that loves and adores you at first, but three months later they become distant and they leave you from one day to the next.

Or yet again you keep meeting people that hurt you in one way or another or always end up treating pretty much the same way no matter who they are, their relationship to you, or where they come from.

All the above behaviors manifest because they exist in your consciousness. Those people are one hundred percent yourself pushed out.

Did Neville Goddard Never Teach That We Can Manifest a Specific Person?

Maybe, like me, you’ve heard interviews from Neville Goddard so-called “experts” saying that Neville never taught that we can manifest a romantic partner, commonly called a ‘specific person’ in the Neville Goddard community.

Well, when I first heard that I was shocked since I remembered listening to one of his lectures, where Neville said that he manifested his second wife. But I couldn’t remember where I heard it.

Thankfully, one of my YouTube channel subscribers found it, and kindly let me know about it. Here is what Neville says about meeting his wife: “I met my wife in 1936, I fell in love with her the very moment I saw her. She didn’t with me, but she didn’t know that she was going to be my wife, I knew it that very moment, I just knew it. I said that you don’t know it but you’re going to be my wife.”

So, he clearly admits that as soon as he saw his wife-to-be he fell in love with her, but she didn’t. However, he said to himself that even though she didn’t know it yet, she was going to be his wife.

I don’t know how clearer this could be. Now, knowing that Neville Goddard practiced what he taught if he knew that she was going to be his wife while she wasn’t feeling the same way he did about her, How was this going to happen? He knew it was going to happen because he was going to manifest her using his wonderful human imagination, as he used to say.

And following Neville, many people of his time as well as modern times, have manifested their specific person.

Here is an experience from one of Neville’s students of his time who manifested her specific person. This story appears in his book The Law and the Promise :

“Last August, while on a ‘blind date’ I met the man I wanted to marry. This happens sometimes, and it happened to me. He was everything I had ever thought of as desirable in a husband. Two days after this enchanted evening, it was necessary for me to change my place of residence because of my work, and that same week the mutual friend who had introduced me to this man, moved away from the city. I realized that the man I had met probably did not know of my new address, and frankly, I was not sure he knew my name.

“After your last lecture, I spoke to you of this situation. Although I had plenty of other ‘dates’ I could not forget this one man. Your lecture was based on revising our day; and after speaking to you, I determined to revise my day, every day. Before going to sleep that night, I felt I was in a different bed, in my own home, as a married woman — and not as a single working girl, sharing an apartment with three other girls. I twisted an imaginary wedding band on my imaginary left hand, saying over and over to myself, ‘This is wonderful! I really am Mrs. J.E.!’ and I fell asleep in what was — a moment before — a waking dream.

“I repeated this imaginary scene for one month, night after night. The first week in October he ‘found’ me. On our second date, I knew my dreams were rightly placed. Your teaching tells us to live in the end of our desire until that desire becomes ‘fact’ so although I did not know how he felt toward me, I continued, night after night, living in the feeling of my dream realized.

“The results? In November he proposed. In January we announced our engagement; and the following May we were married. The loveliest part of it all, however, is that I am happier than I ever dreamed possible; and I know in my heart, he is too.” …Mrs. J.E

As you can see, manifesting a specific person is not new. Neville did it, some of his students did it, and modern day Neville Goddard’s students are still doing it.

My Own Specific Person’s Story

For the longest time, I was a victim of my own mind. I thought that the world was against me because I had adopted that belief as a young child. Once you have a belief, it becomes part of your consciousness and it MUST play out day in and day out because it’s the law.

This belief played out in my life on pretty much everyone I have ever met. People would take advantage of me, slander me, abandon me, and even mistreat me. This lasted for decades.

It’s only when I woke up to the fact that I was responsible for what was happening in my life that I understood that I could change that, and actually changed it.

When I met my partner, I had been working on MY-self for about 3 years. I had been single since my last awful relationship, free, happy, and surrounded by my favorite beings, animals. No offense. And for the duration of those few years, I became whole and happy with myself, with the slighted need for a romantic partner. Not that I didn’t want anyone for the rest of my life, but it was not my first concern.

At the time I was into helping people in a completely different arena. And as a result, I was receiving thank you emails on a weekly basis. And one day, I received an email from someone who had been very much involved in what I was helping people with, and since my work had helped him a lot, he wanted to thank me for that.

I replied to him. He wasn’t expecting a reply from me, so he replied back to tell me how agreeably surprised he was that I replied. so I replied back to him again. We exchanged a dozen emails back and forth during that week. Then he asked me if we could speak on the phone. So we scheduled a day and time to speak on the phone.

For someone like me who is never late, I was late calling him that day because I had a client just before plus lots of things to do, so when I finally reached out to my phone to call him he had already texted me like 3 times, are you there? I’m here! I’m ready when you are…

That day, I had no idea that I was going to speaking to the man of my life.

Eventually, he started sending me recordings of his story rather than writing long emails. And that’s when I fell in love with that man that I had not yet seen. I just knew that he was a version of me, and we had so much in common.

When I made the conscious decision (the assumption) that this man was mine. I didn’t visualize, and I didn’t do any technique. I simply fully assumed that it was done. And I remember feeling it in my stomach area where feelings come from. And then I relaxed and let go basically. Meaning I wasn’t obsessed with it.

About 10 days after my assumption, this man, who I still hardly knew and who hardly knew me, had a very vivid dream about me. I was lying in bed next to him (instead of his wife) and I had just gotten up and walked towards the kitchen. He then got up as well and held me by the waist from behind and I put my head on his shoulder. And he woke up.

After that dream, he couldn’t get me out of his head, but at the same time, he didn’t understand what was happening to him. We were still perfect strangers as he put it.

What was happening is what’s happening on the other side of the curtain of our consciousness, so to speak, when you are manifesting a specific person. I was not aware that my assumption had “taken effect” as it were, and bridges of incidents were taking place. I had planted my seed and it was growing. This was early August, and on the last day of September, after a few more bridges, my assumption hardened into fact in the 3D world. We were officially in a relationship.

Like Neville himself, and like hundreds of Neville’s students, I had manifested my specific person.

Are We Manipulating People by Manifesting Them?

The whole vast world is yourself pushed out. Everyone is you pushed out. No exception. As long as you assume something to be true, consciously, or unconsciously, whether it is a person, an event, a job, anything… it will manifest in your external reality.

But before it does, it must exist in you, therefore, there is nothing to change, but you. An assumption is constructed inside you. And as long you don’t contradict that assumption with opposite thoughts and feelings it will “harden into fact” as Neville Goddard used to say.

Since there is only one consciousness, yourself, there is no such thing as manipulating others. Everyone is you pushed out is always working whether you are aware of it or not. So, if you “think” that you are manipulating others by consciously manifesting them, you are doing the exact same thing unconsciously every single day anyway.

The only reason why some LOA coaches say that you are manipulating others by consciously manifesting them, it’s because they believe in separation. They are not aware we are all one, and that there is only ONE consciousness and that nothing exists outside of your own consciousness.

So, when you’re experiencing people loving you, being neutral towards you, or hating you, it is your own consciousness that is playing out. Understanding this concept has changed my whole life. Since I am aware of this the people I meet now are the extreme opposite of the people I used to meet.

That’s how I went from awful relationships to someone who loves and adores me, and has nothing but compliments for me every single day. But I am fully aware that I manifest every single of my relationships. Not just this one.

Even though it appears that people have changed around me, it is me that has changed. The shift happened within me first. People are only reflecting my new self-concept. My new self-concept includes what I believe about myself and what I believe about others. Which is different from what I used to believe. Because of this shift, my whole life has changed in all areas.

Once you understand that everything in the whole vast world is a reflection of you, you and the world around you are bound to change.

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