In my last article, I discussed how imagination creates your reality, and today I wanted to go deeper along those lines, especially for those who are manifesting a specific person. The more I interact with people who are manifesting a specific person, the more I see the mistakes they are making, when this could very easily be avoided. So, if you have been in the ‘process’ of manifesting your SP for a while now, read this article and apply what you read, and your results will change.
It’s imperative that you understand that your imagination creates your reality, and it’s imperative that you understand that your imagination is running at all times. It’s not that you can push an on and off button that would either activate or stop your imagination from creating. That’s why you’ve been manifesting your whole life since you were a child, long before you ran into Neville Goddard’s teaching and the law of assumption.
So, in this article, I want to pinpoint the number one mistake that I see people making when it comes to manifesting their SP, especially when that person is an ex. And what to do instead.
Stop Doing What’s Not Working
The number one mistake that I see is the need to ‘do things‘ in order to manifest the SP, such as affirming, visualizing, and other techniques, or even contacting them. Truth be told, unless you have correctly imagined with feeling first, and removed that neediness/emergency feeling, none of the above will work for you. And trust me if I tell you that this statement is not based on theories but on countless real experiences.
A very easy and simple way to verify this it’s to ask yourself the honest question, is my SP doing any of those things to make me want them? More than likely the answer is a big fat NO. No, your SP is not affirming, visualizing, or any of that stuff to get you. However, don’t you want them, regardless?
So, why is it that you feel the need to do ‘those things’ to manifest your SP? Well, the main reason why you feel the need to do those techniques comes from your NEED for them. But, unfortunately, it’s that very neediness that creates a resistance from the get-go.
So, if right now, you are affirming and visualizing your little scene in ‘hope’ to manifest your SP while having a strong need to be with them, stop right here because you’re wasting your time and energy. Start over on a more solid ground, which we are going to discuss in this article. If you do this, and when you do it, you will start to feel different and your world will shape itself around you differently, and that includes your specific person, of course.
You Are Manifesting What you are Feeling Right Now
Sensation precedes manifestation and is the foundation upon which all manifestation rests. Be careful of your moods and feelings, for there is an unbroken connection between your feelings and your visible world. – Neville Goddard – Feeling is the Secret
When Neville talks about moods here, he doesn’t mean emotions such as feeling happy or sad, he’s talking about what you feel about yourself, your state. When manifesting a specific person, you need to be the Queen and King of your world in your imagination and feeling. You need to feel like a winner. You need to feel that you are the one who is chased, pursued, and wanted. You need to feel free and independent. You need to feel whole and complete now. Not when you get your SP.
However, if you are honest with yourself and analyze what you’re doing and feeling right now, you’ll probably realize that this is not the case. Right now, you are the one chasing and wanting. Right now you do not feel complete and whole. Right now you do not feel like a winner. And this is WHY you feel the need to affirm, visualize, and do all this “work” in order to ‘get’ that SP of yours.
This is the feeling/behavior that you must change first if you want to manifest your SP in your physical experience.
Another common mistake behind all of that it’s the belief that you have to change your thoughts, but your thoughts are only the results of your state and your state is your I AM. So, in order to change the thoughts, you change the state, and in order to change the state you change the I AM.
You need to change YOUR I AM. That’s the only missing key to your manifestation.
How to Change Your I AM to Manifest Your SP
If you are yearning for your SP who is not currently in your physical reality, you have to change your AM. The reason you are not able to change your situation it’s because you are doing your techniques FROM the old self, the old I AM.
Your thoughts are IMPLYING something about you, your current I AM. If your thoughts are not serving you, do not try to change the thoughts, but simply change the I AM from within.
Your thoughts spring from your self-concept. Your self-concept spring from your current I AM. What are your current thoughts saying about you? What are you claiming that you are right now? Why are you creating those thoughts? It’s by asking yourself these types of questions that you can dig deeper into yourself and truly see from what place, what self-concept you are repeating your affirmations and scenes. The ONLY reason why your techniques are not working it’s that you are practicing them from your old concept of self. But your old self can only manifest the old.
Neville taught that you have to create a scene and change your inner conversations to imply that you already have your desire. This comes from a decision, a deliberate act to create a new story and a new habit that’s going to put you in a different state. In that new state, you’re not desiring anymore because you are experiencing your wish fulfilled. You are no longer wanting because you have reached the state of fulfillment in your imagination. You do it over and over until it feels real. That’s how you CREATE NEW THOUGHTS AND FEELING that imply that you are NOW what you once used to want and desire.
As a student of the law and as a coach, I wanted to dig in to understand what is the problem that I’m observing over and over with people fighting with those affirmations and scenes to manifest their SPs with little to no results. And what I found is very simple, they have not changed the I AM. They have not changed the state, they have not changed the belief and the thoughts that come from that, so they keep on repeating those affirmations and scenes FROM the old self, but the old self is incapable to manifest the new reality which belongs to the new self. It’s that simple!
Your Imagination is Key
The world, and all within it, is man’s conditioned consciousness objectified. Consciousness is the cause as well as the substance of the entire world. So it is to consciousness that we must turn if we would discover the secret of creation. – Neville Goddard – Feeling is the Secret
When you practice a scene either during SATS (state akin to sleep) or at any other time of the day, do not imagine your scene from the state where you NEED your desire or your SP. You must lose yourself in your imagination by shutting off the 3D as if it didn’t exist. For that moment, the ONLY thing that exists is your imaginal act. You’re not visualizing a scene to get something or someone, you go deep within the imaginal act to BE now who you want to be. There’s nothing and no one that’s telling you that are not this now because you ARE. If you ARE now in your imagination then your I AM IS, now, what you are imagining. Your I AM is God and God is your imagination. And once imagined and felt, it will be reflected in the physical world because it is law.
Your world is all within, your consciousness is the cause, the ONLY cause. So when you go within, in your imagination, you go to the source, you change the I AM at the source. Then, and only then, will you be able to observe the change in your world. If you are manifesting a specific person, or anything else, then, they will manifest easily and effortlessly.