Yes, how you manifest one thing is how you manifest everything. I feel that this article was needed because I have noticed, for a while now, that every time a video, a course, an article, or anything else… has the SP for a topic, it’s a sure thing that many more people will be watching, reading, or buying that.

What does that tell us?

Well, it shows that in the manifesting community, the majority of people still believe that there is a special formula to manifest a specific person and another for anything else. As a result, if a video is titled, How to Improve Your Imagination, or How to Get Unstuck, those videos which, of course, apply to manifesting an SP, might not be watched as much as if the video is titled, how to get your SP fast.

Well, if you’ve been thinking this way until now, that’s probably why you’re still after your SP in the first place. Manifesting an SP, a job, money, weight loss, health, a house, and anything else you may want, is the same thing. How you manifest one thing, is how you manifest everything.

There’s ONLY one way to manifest it all, and this is what we are going to discuss in this article. If you want to know the basics of manifesting once and for all, and you’re not sure what they are, be sure to read on.

Why Do People Land in the Law of Assumption Community?

There is no one to change but self, that self is simply your awareness, your consciousness, and the world in which it lives is determined by the concept you hold of self. It is to consciousness that we must turn as to the only reality. – Neville Goddard

Let’s be honest, most of us, landed in the law of assumption community because we wanted something or someone. The majority was after a specific person, (an ex, or someone they knew) which whom they wanted to have a romantic relationship. Many of those people are still after that specific person, and that’s OK. No matter the reason we discovered the law, it was a good reason because it brought us here. However, if after a few months, or maybe a few years of being in this community, your aim hasn’t changed, you might want to work on your self-concept.

Neville said, there is no one to change but self, and that self is your awareness. Your consciousness. Your I AM. And the world in which you live is determined by it, and it is dependent on the concept that you hold of yourself (your self-concept). And it is that self-concept that is reflected in our lives.

So, in the end, it’s not about getting things. Knowing the law is never about getting things, but about growing in consciousness to the point of understanding that we already are who we want to be.

Why do so many people still rush head first to the online content that contains the term SP or specific person? Because they are still in the race of getting while dismissing the most important factor, which is BECOMING who they want to be from within first, so what they want without, will come to them, instead of them running after it. As long as you do not understand this, you will be making your life harder than it needs to be.

How Do We Manifest?

The law of identical harvest or cause and effect is impersonal and can be used to bring into your experience anything you can conceive. – Neville Goddard

Are you still under the impression that there is one way to manifest something and another way to manifest something else? Are you still under the false impression that it’s any different to manifest a specific person and a job for example? Truth be told, there are even some coaches and teachers out there that would give you this impression, so they’re not helping the community, for sure. But that’s why you’ve landed on this blog, so you can drop all those limiting beliefs and start your journey as a limitless conscious manifestor.

To continue with our example of manifesting an SP vs a job, is there any difference? If you think that there is, it’s only your assumption, but as per the law, there is no difference. If you are manifesting a job, who is going to give you that job? Isn’t it someone specific? If you are manifesting money, unless that money falls from the sky, someone (a specific person) will be involved in giving you that money in one way or another, right? Even if you simply want to manifest a relationship with someone that you do not know, yet, at some point down the road, that person is going to be a specific person. So, pretty much anything that you manifest outside of your own body, involves someone specific.

The law is impartial, and it is no concern of the law what you manifest. The law will bring into your experience what you can conceive to be true.

If you are able to imagine and feel that you already have your desire NOW, and if you return to that state over and over until it feels real and natural, your desire will manifest, because it’s law.

On the other hand, if you keep thinking, as Neville said, “this is too good to be true, something will probably happen to spoil it. Something will probably happen to create conflict or to cause you to miss it entirely.”

This is the law, for every single one of our desires. No exception.

Why is it so Hard for Some?

No one sews a patch of unshrunk cloth on an old garment, for the patch will pull away from the garment, making the tear worse. Neither do people pour new wine into old wineskins. If they do, the skins will burst; the wine will run out and the wineskins will be ruined. No, they pour new wine into new wineskins, and both are preserved.” Matthew 9:16,17

So, if it’s that simple, why is it so hard for some to manifest their desires, and especially that infamous SP?

It’s because as long as you are in the business of getting things or people without understanding WHO YOU TRULY ARE, you are missing the point.

Do you understand the meaning of the scriptures above? It’s saying that the old doesn’t match well with the new. When you are trying to manifest the life of your dreams from your old concept of self, there is a mismatch, it’s not working.

When you are “trying” to manifest something new which belongs to your new self, or that requires that you become a new person first, from your old self, your desire will elude you somehow. In other words, you are still keyed too low for that desire that requires that you rise in consciousness to become part of your physical experience. And that rise in consciousness is part of the game. It’s part of the game of life that we learn to rise in consciousness so we can better understand who we truly are. And once that happens, you start seeing yourself as bigger and better, worthy of all the great things in the world, because no creation can ever be greater than its creator.

Once you become conscious of that, all your desires will come to you, you will never have to run after them again. The world will bend for you.

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In my last article, I discussed how imagination creates your reality, and today I wanted to go deeper along those lines, especially for those who are manifesting a specific person. The more I interact with people who are manifesting a specific person, the more I see the mistakes they are making, when this could very easily be avoided. So, if you have been in the ‘process’ of manifesting your SP for a while now, read this article and apply what you read, and your results will change.

It’s imperative that you understand that your imagination creates your reality, and it’s imperative that you understand that your imagination is running at all times. It’s not that you can push an on and off button that would either activate or stop your imagination from creating. That’s why you’ve been manifesting your whole life since you were a child, long before you ran into Neville Goddard’s teaching and the law of assumption.

So, in this article, I want to pinpoint the number one mistake that I see people making when it comes to manifesting their SP, especially when that person is an ex. And what to do instead.

Stop Doing What’s Not Working

The number one mistake that I see is the need to ‘do things‘ in order to manifest the SP, such as affirming, visualizing, and other techniques, or even contacting them. Truth be told, unless you have correctly imagined with feeling first, and removed that neediness/emergency feeling, none of the above will work for you. And trust me if I tell you that this statement is not based on theories but on countless real experiences.

A very easy and simple way to verify this it’s to ask yourself the honest question, is my SP doing any of those things to make me want them? More than likely the answer is a big fat NO. No, your SP is not affirming, visualizing, or any of that stuff to get you. However, don’t you want them, regardless?

So, why is it that you feel the need to do ‘those things’ to manifest your SP? Well, the main reason why you feel the need to do those techniques comes from your NEED for them. But, unfortunately, it’s that very neediness that creates a resistance from the get-go.

So, if right now, you are affirming and visualizing your little scene in ‘hope’ to manifest your SP while having a strong need to be with them, stop right here because you’re wasting your time and energy. Start over on a more solid ground, which we are going to discuss in this article. If you do this, and when you do it, you will start to feel different and your world will shape itself around you differently, and that includes your specific person, of course.

You Are Manifesting What you are Feeling Right Now

Sensation precedes manifestation and is the foundation upon which all manifestation rests. Be careful of your moods and feelings, for there is an unbroken connection between your feelings and your visible world. – Neville Goddard – Feeling is the Secret

When Neville talks about moods here, he doesn’t mean emotions such as feeling happy or sad, he’s talking about what you feel about yourself, your state. When manifesting a specific person, you need to be the Queen and King of your world in your imagination and feeling. You need to feel like a winner. You need to feel that you are the one who is chased, pursued, and wanted. You need to feel free and independent. You need to feel whole and complete now. Not when you get your SP.

However, if you are honest with yourself and analyze what you’re doing and feeling right now, you’ll probably realize that this is not the case. Right now, you are the one chasing and wanting. Right now you do not feel complete and whole. Right now you do not feel like a winner. And this is WHY you feel the need to affirm, visualize, and do all this “work” in order to ‘get’ that SP of yours.

This is the feeling/behavior that you must change first if you want to manifest your SP in your physical experience.

Another common mistake behind all of that it’s the belief that you have to change your thoughts, but your thoughts are only the results of your state and your state is your I AM. So, in order to change the thoughts, you change the state, and in order to change the state you change the I AM.

You need to change YOUR I AM. That’s the only missing key to your manifestation.

How to Change Your I AM to Manifest Your SP

If you are yearning for your SP who is not currently in your physical reality, you have to change your AM. The reason you are not able to change your situation it’s because you are doing your techniques FROM the old self, the old I AM.

Your thoughts are IMPLYING something about you, your current I AM. If your thoughts are not serving you, do not try to change the thoughts, but simply change the I AM from within.

Your thoughts spring from your self-concept. Your self-concept spring from your current I AM. What are your current thoughts saying about you? What are you claiming that you are right now? Why are you creating those thoughts? It’s by asking yourself these types of questions that you can dig deeper into yourself and truly see from what place, what self-concept you are repeating your affirmations and scenes. The ONLY reason why your techniques are not working it’s that you are practicing them from your old concept of self. But your old self can only manifest the old.

Neville taught that you have to create a scene and change your inner conversations to imply that you already have your desire. This comes from a decision, a deliberate act to create a new story and a new habit that’s going to put you in a different state. In that new state, you’re not desiring anymore because you are experiencing your wish fulfilled. You are no longer wanting because you have reached the state of fulfillment in your imagination. You do it over and over until it feels real. That’s how you CREATE NEW THOUGHTS AND FEELING that imply that you are NOW what you once used to want and desire.

As a student of the law and as a coach, I wanted to dig in to understand what is the problem that I’m observing over and over with people fighting with those affirmations and scenes to manifest their SPs with little to no results. And what I found is very simple, they have not changed the I AM. They have not changed the state, they have not changed the belief and the thoughts that come from that, so they keep on repeating those affirmations and scenes FROM the old self, but the old self is incapable to manifest the new reality which belongs to the new self. It’s that simple!

Your Imagination is Key

The world, and all within it, is man’s conditioned consciousness objectified. Consciousness is the cause as well as the substance of the entire world. So it is to consciousness that we must turn if we would discover the secret of creation. – Neville Goddard – Feeling is the Secret

When you practice a scene either during SATS (state akin to sleep) or at any other time of the day, do not imagine your scene from the state where you NEED your desire or your SP. You must lose yourself in your imagination by shutting off the 3D as if it didn’t exist. For that moment, the ONLY thing that exists is your imaginal act. You’re not visualizing a scene to get something or someone, you go deep within the imaginal act to BE now who you want to be. There’s nothing and no one that’s telling you that are not this now because you ARE. If you ARE now in your imagination then your I AM IS, now, what you are imagining. Your I AM is God and God is your imagination. And once imagined and felt, it will be reflected in the physical world because it is law.

Your world is all within, your consciousness is the cause, the ONLY cause. So when you go within, in your imagination, you go to the source, you change the I AM at the source. Then, and only then, will you be able to observe the change in your world. If you are manifesting a specific person, or anything else, then, they will manifest easily and effortlessly.

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As we’ve started a new Recreate Your SP workshop in my membership Facebook group, I thought that I would share some useful insights with you about this topic.

The mistake that most people make when it comes to manifesting it’s that even though, for the most part, they know that this is not the law of attraction, but the law of assumption, they still feel that they attract things outside of them towards them. However, I’m here to tell you that if you still believe this it’s going to work against you. As a matter of fact, the more you are going to “try” to “get” things out there to come to you, the more those things are going to elude you. This is why so many people are failing to change their lives following the teaching of the law of attraction.

We do not change people and things, we change ourselves from within, and then people and things, which are us pushed out, will conform to our own transformation. Manifesting a new version of your SP is no different.

The Illusion of Free Will

You do not have to be concerned about influencing others as they are not the cause, your imaginal act is. You alone are doing it as your imaginal acts influence people. Everyone is yourself pushed out so when you imagine you are influencing yourself. – Neville Goddard

The first question that you need to ask yourself, is why your SP is showing up in the version that they are appearing in my 3D reality. Some teachers, even in the Neville Goddard/law of assumption community, are still believing that people have free will. The reason why they believe and teach that people have free will, it’s because they feel that if people didn’t have free will, they wouldn’t be a full-blown person with their own brain, intelligence, and feelings. But that’s not what it means when we say that people don’t have free will. Not having free will doesn’t mean any of that, and it doesn’t mean that people are not God of their reality. It simply means that in your world, people have no choice (no matter what you believe), but to act according to your expectations, beliefs, and overall assumptions.

Because there exist multiple versions of each one of us, depending on the state that we are dwelling in, we are going to manifest a matching version of that person or people. When I was in the state of being a loser who was always abandoned and betrayed by people, for all the years that I was dwelling in that state, I ONLY manifested the version of people that would betray and abandon me. Those people didn’t have free will in my reality.

When it comes to yourself, your free will ends in the state that you are dwelling in. If you are in the state of victimhood you won’t be able to take actions or manifest circumstances that will lead you to success. Not because success is impossible for you, but because success is impossible for you as long as you dwell in that state. Because success doesn’t exist in the state of victimhood. However, the moment you decide to step into the state where success does exist, then you will take inspired actions and manifest people and circumstances that contribute to your manifestation of success.

For those of you who are trying desperately to manifest a specific person from the state of being single, you are experiencing how difficult this is, aren’t you? This is not because you are single, but because you dwell in the state of being lonely and loveless while you are trying to reach out to someone over there that is separated from you. Thus, you feel all the pangs of being single, of not having your SP, and in worst-case scenarios, you’re feeling rejected by your SP. However, the moment you leave that state and embody the state of BEING and FEELING love within, feeling loved, wanted, and chosen, your SP will by default, choose you.

As long as you’re dwelling in this wanting, lacking, and even desperate state/version of yourself, you are manifesting your SP going away from you. Not because they want to, but because, by law, they have to. Their free will starts and ends with you. Your SP is not going to mirror what you want, but what you ARE. This is why, as Neville says, there is no one to change but self. Once you switch from lack to love, people will love you rather than run away from you. That includes your SP.

There are Many Versions of Every One

The time it takes your assumption to become fact, your desire to be fulfilled, is directly proportionate to the naturalness of your feeling of already being what you want to be, of already having what you desire. – Neville Goddard

There is more than one version of each one of us. You have, yourself, been in different versions at different times of your life. You are not the same version of yourself than when you were 10 or 20 years old. If you are much older than your twenty, you are no longer the version of you when you were in your twenties.

The belief that there is only one version of a person, it’s one of those 3D illusions. In fact, there is no such thing as just one version of a person.

In order to manifest your desired version of your SP, you need to remember that that version already exists, and you need to feel it natural. As per Neville’s quote above, to the degree of naturalness that you are going to feel it, it’s how fast you are going to see it in the 3D.

The problem that I have observed, though, when people want to create a new version of their SP, it’s that it’s more natural to them to see their SP in the old version, than it is to see them in their desired version. And this is the ONLY reason why it’s that old version that keeps on manifesting.

Versions of a person are basically states. Just like we are in different states throughout the course of a day, we are in different versions as well.

So, when you want to recreate the version of your SP, you have to imagine your SP in a different state. And just like imagining for another person’s health or wealth, when you imagine another version of your SP, YOU are the one doing the inner work, because your imagination manifests not just for you, but for others as well (because we are all one).

Recreating the version of your SP is forgetting the old version and remembering the version of them that you desire. And you need to STOP trying to change them, but rather fall in love with the new version of them.

The Necessity to Have Faith

It’s up to you to provide the necessary link between your assumption and its fulfillment. That link is faith. – Neville Goddard

The biggest challenge for the whole manifesting community is FAITH because it’s so much easier to have faith in the seen than it is in the unseen. “For we walk by faith, not by sight.” 2 Cor 5:7

The reason why this is the case it’s because, when we were born, we agreed to forget who we truly are. So much so, that it’s obvious that some people alive today will live and die without ever remembering who they are in this lifetime. However, if somehow, you found the law of assumption and the teaching of Neville Goddard, and it resonated with you, it’s because you are ready for this amazing awakening.

Have faith that your SP desired version (no matter who is your specific person in your case), already exists. Because all possibilities already exist.

All Possibilities already exist right now. So, it’s not about creating or even “manifesting” anything, but it’s about CHOOSING the desired version of your specific person.

The 3D it’s like that infinite film roll archive with all the frames that will ever exist. If right now you are in a frame where the version of your SP doesn’t exist, that’s why you CANNOT see it. But the moment you step in that frame where it does exist, then you will be able to see it. You just have to choose it and step in it.

Recreating your SP is simpler than you think, but it requires faith in your imagination, more than faith in what you can see in the 3D. If you need help to manifest a new version of your SP, join us in our Facebook membership group.

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I had just one article dedicated to the topic of the sp on this blog, until now, because after all, this blog is about the law of assumption, not just about manifesting a specific person. Today, however, the topic of the sp is in the air because I will be starting a special manifesting your specific person workshop, for the first time, in my VIP membership group. So I thought I’d dedicate a second article about manifesting a sp.

As much as we would like it not to be the case, many people who got to discover the law of assumption and the teaching of Neville Goddard got here because they were after a specific person, mostly an ex. And for most people, they find this task a difficult one. Some people have told me that they were able to manifest all kinds of things, money, jobs, vacations, even healing for others (both animals and people), while that sp is still resisting them.

No doubt that there’s something going on when it comes to manifesting that sp. This is why I have decided to create a brand new workshop to manifest your specific person. In this article, I am going to discuss why’s it’s been tough and give you an overview of what will be considered in the workshop.

The Truth About Manifesting a Specific Person

The truth about manifesting a specific person it’s that it’s easy. It’s as easy as anything else, because, in fact, no matter what you desire to manifest it’s going to include specific people. If you decide to manifest a free cup of coffee, well, someone will be moved to offer you that free cup of coffee. If you manifest a job, someone will be moved to give you that job. If you think about it, pretty much every time that you are going to consciously manifest something, someone, (a specific person), will be involved. So, why does it seem so much easier in such cases? The short answer is that’s because you are not so attached to the outcome.

Attachment is, by all means, the worst block between you and your sp. Being attached to an outcome makes it very difficult to manifest such an outcome.

What is Attachment?

Attachment to something or someone comes from neediness. We develop an attachment to what we feel that we need desperately, what we feel we can’t live without. However, neediness is a repeller, and thus, it will work against you if you need something or someone too much. I cannot tell you of a single sp success story that came from attachment, because manifesting your desire while being needy for that desire it’s like trying to mix oil and water, it just doesn’t go together. However, most of the sp success stories that I personally know of and the ones that we hear about in the manifesting community, come from letting go of such attachment.

What is Letting Go?

Letting go of your attachment doesn’t mean that you have to give up on your desire. This is a huge misunderstanding that goes around and that only confuses people. To let go is letting go of the neediness and the unhealthy attachment. No longer putting that person at the forefront while you’re putting your own life on the back burner. No longer putting your life on hold, basically, until you’re able to get that specific person in your life. The truth is that even if you did manifest your sp in such a state of mind, it wouldn’t be a success recipe to keep them, to say the least. In fact, it would be a good recipe to get back to square one in no time.

Releasing that attachment before you manifest your sp is not only going to be the number one helper to manifest them but to keep them as well.

Why has it Been Hard for You to Manifest Your SP?

If you react by feeling depressed or assume any other negative attitude, you will then experience the same type of rejection in the future. Your reactions, whether positive or negative, are creative of future circumstances. – Neville Goddard

One of the main reasons why it’s been so hard for you to manifest your sp, especially if they are an ex, it’s because the situation between you and them is loaded with emotional baggage, insecurities, fears, and all kinds of turmoil. And even though you have discovered the law of assumption through the teaching of Neville Goddard, you have not been able to stop playing the old story over and over, therefore, that story has been playing over and over in your physical world.

With such a recipe for disaster, one might wonder how in the world it would be anything but hard to manifest a SP while being in such a state. This is why dropping the old story is a must to manifest a specific person. Oftentimes, that includes both the old story between you and your sp and the story that you personally are entertaining about romantic relationships in general. In such case, you are going to have to take responsibility for your past and consciously remove all those cobwebs to start on the right track.

With this said, why don’t we take a look at what we will be learning and practicing in my upcoming Manifesting Your SP Workshop.

The Manifesting Your SP Workshop

Here is a quick overview at what will be considered in the workshop.

1. You are going to get rid of all the wrong concepts that are running around on the internet about manifesting a specific person which are actually working against you right now if you fall for them.
2. You are going to figure out your relationship patterns that are keeping you in that destructive circle for years.
3. You are going to let go of neediness, attachment, and dependency, and become more confident and secure.
4. You are going to reprogram your subconscious mind for a new relationship pattern.
5. You are going to dissolve all blocks, so you can move forward as the God and Goddess that you are.
6. You are going to have a full understanding of how we manifest a specific person and what’s going on on their end as you manfiest them. What to do and what NOT to do in this case.
7. You are going to create an upgraded version of you not only to manifest your sp, but to keep them.
8. You are going to get better in touch with the God and Goddess that their sp will be crazy about.
9. You are going to discover my own knock-out affirmation rampage that helped me change my life from worst to best.
10. You are going to know for sure what you really want.

If this sounds exciting for you, you can join the VIP Group, and start rolling on September 6th, 2021. If you do, it’s going to be great fun, great learning, and a huge change in consciousness. We are going to ROCK!

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The subject of free will is definitely one of the most misunderstood concepts of the law of assumption. And with so many “law of attraction” coaches that present themselves as experts, saying that people do have free will, certainly emphasize the confusion. So, even though I’ve already written on the topic of free will before, in this article, I wanted to discuss it a little bit deeper for a full circle on this topic.

The Illusion of Free Will

The illusion of the free will to do is but ignorance of the law of assumption upon which all action is based. Neville Goddard

As you’re waking up in the morning you have the free will to decide if you want to get out of bed or not. Then, if you decide to get out of bed, you have the free will to decide what you want to wear and what you want to have for breakfast. You have the free will to be kind or to be rude to people, you have the free will to go for a walk or to go for a ride. You even feel that you have the free will to go for a particular career or job, and so forth. But even those smilingly choices are based on something much bigger than them, they are based on the STATE that you are in. Because the state that you are in will determine what actions you are going to take. In other words, the state that you are in will push itself out in your external world. And from there, the seemingly free will that you have is just an illusion as Neville said.

So, in the end, even the smallest actions that we take every day based on our “free will” are dictated by the state we are dwelling in.

In my last podcast where I was discussing states, I mentioned how once upon a time I inherited some money. However, because I had never left the state of being broke and the state of lack that I was in, that money that I could have multiplied by taking the right actions, was actually completely gone in about 4 years, leaving me even worst than before. Why did that money disappear rather than grow? Because from the state of lack that I was in, I kept making wrong decisions both for my business and other things. It would have appeared that I had the free will to make the decisions I made, but I didn’t. The truth is that I could ONLY make decisions based on my state of lack and being broke. That state drove me to take the wrong step every time, so I could get rid of that money as fast as possible. And I did.

This is how it works for everything and for every state. You are under the impression that you have free will, but you don’t. Your free will is one hundred percent dependent on your state. And you can’t possibly take action based on a state that you’re not in. This is why the state you’re in is of the utmost importance.

Do Other People have Free Will?

You do not have to be concerned about influencing others, as they are not the cause. Your imaginal act is! Those who have a billion dollars are not causing your world. You and you alone are doing it, and your imaginal acts influence people. Everyone is yourself pushed out, so when you imagine, you are influencing yourself. Neville Goddard

You are not forcing anyone to do anything. You are not influencing anyone. But, by law, people have no choice but to project your thoughts and beliefs back to you. The reason why this is the case it’s because they don’t have any free will. People in your reality don’t have free will. Not because we’re saying so, but because this IS so.

When you began that beautiful relationship with your sp, they were head over heels in love with you, but then that sp dumped you just a few months later for no logical reasons. This is the perfect illustration that people in your reality don’t have free will. In this case, you can see very clearly that your specific person doesn’t have any free will, but to play the role that you have given them.

Did you give them the role to leave you consciously? No, of course not, but you’ve given them that role according to the state you were dwelling in. Because you were dwelling in a state of not being good enough in all its multiple facets, you’ve manifested your partner getting colder and colder to the point of not wanting to be with you anymore. And one day, boom, your imaginal act hardened into fact, and they left.

Back then, you had no idea about what was unfolding behind the scene, but looking back, after having discovered the law of assumption thanks to your painful experience, you were able to trace back your thoughts and frame of mind, and now, you can fully understand what happened.

If instead of being in a state of not being good enough, you had been in a state of being complete, loved, and desired…, your sp wouldn’t have and couldn’t have acted the same way they did according to your state of not being good enough. This doesn’t only apply to our romantic partners, by the way, it applies to everyone in your reality. People in our reality will always mirror the content of our consciousness.

Every One Is YOURSELF Pushed Out

As Neville said, in the quote above, everyone is yourself pushed out, so when you imagine, you are influencing yourself, and by influencing yourself, you are influencing others by default. It is not a matter of deciding that you don’t want to influence people and believe that they do have free will, because THE LAW will contradict you. We influence people by default because of what we are imagining. Other people are never to blame, our imagination is. When people act a certain way towards you, you are the source of it.

As I have mentioned several times before in my content, I was the queen of creating people who betrayed me, abandoned me, disappointed me, and took advantage of me in one what or another. I had embodied the state of being a victim. So, for decades, I was the victim of people in my reality, never realizing that I was doing it to myself. I had created the subconscious belief, as a child, that people were not to be trusted and could be harmful, so they were. People in my reality had no choice but to play the role I gave them.

However, today, having embodied a completely different state, I do no longer create those behaviors. I do no longer imagine myself to be a victim, therefore, I am no longer one.

Your SP is Waiting for YOU

To attempt to change the world before we change our inner talking is to struggle against the very nature of things. Man can go round and round in the same circle of disappointments and misfortunes, not seeing them as caused by his own negative inner talking, but as caused by others. Neville Goddard

Every day I read people’s messages, emails, and other comments that imply that their sp is eluding them. But no one is eluding you but YOURSELF. The main reason why you’re not with your sp right now, it’s because you are dwelling in an opposite state from that which you need to be in order to manifest the relationship that you want. Your inner talking, your thinking, and your feelings are not matching your desire. This is the reason why you have the illusion that your sp is avoiding you, but the cause comes from within you.

So, if you want to be with your specific person, you need to start BEING with them in your imagination by embodying the state of being in that relationship. Once you embody a state within, your external world will match that state. Right now, you may believe that it’s up to your sp to come towards you, but the truth is that it’s YOU who is preventing them because you are not dwelling in a state that matches your desire to be with them. Thus, THEY, being YOU pushed out, have no choice but to be where you are keeping them. That situation is not caused by them, no matter how strong the illusion. It is caused by you. The moment you embody the state of your desire fulfilled, your state will harden into fact in your physical world. It will because it is law.

The power is within you. How you and other people react in your physical world is all controlled by your imagination. So just go there, and imagine what you want to be and have, and dwell in that state as much as possible. And no matter what your 3D circumstances look like at the moment, your inner world will externalize according to what you are imagining, regardless of any so-call free will, whether it’s your own or that of others.

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Many of you have discovered the teaching of Neville Goddard because you were in a search for a specific person, namely a lover or ex-partner that you wanted back in your life. And if you still are manifesting that specific person with a desperate need to do so, you may be missing the point completely.

The reason I decided to write on this topic it’s because I see so many people in the manifesting community being so focused on that, that they are completely forgetting themselves in the process. If you are doing this, then you are missing the point, and this article is for you.

It is Not About a Specific Person

It was never about your sp. Yes, you did land on the manifesting/law of assumption community because you wanted to get the love of your life back, but this was just an excuse for you to discover who you truly are, because your world is YOUR consciousness out, not that of your sp no matter how much in love you are with them, no matter how much you feel that you are meant to be together, and no matter how much you believe that you are soulmates.

The reason why you discovered this teaching that is still eluding most people walking the earth it’s because YOU were ready for this. Nonetheless, your human-self, being what it is, might have gotten in the way forcing you to focus too much on outer results and not enough on spiritual growth. However, the truth is that if you take on that spiritual awakening journey, every single of your desires will fall in your lap.

Learn to Go Within to Manifest

A very common mistake that I see in the manifesting community it’s that a lot of people are trying to fix their problems from without when the root of the problem comes from within. A good example of this it’s when people get panicky when they have a dream contrary to their desire. More often than not it’s about a specific person. They do not understand how dreams work so they get all confused and even disturbed by dreams that they sometimes even take literally.

When a dream is to be taken literally, you will never question it, you will know. I’ve had a couple of such dreams in my life and they feel totally different. I promise you that you’ll never confuse such a dream with a regular dream. On the other hand, when you have “regular” dreams, which are much more common, even if you don’t feel good about them, you know they are just dreams. The reason why they do not match your desire it’s simply because those dreams are giving you a hint that your subconscious beliefs do not quite match your desires yet. In such a case, instead of feeling sad and depressed about it, simply take this as a sign that you have to keep on working on yourself. And if you persist in doing this, your dreams are bound to match your desires eventually.

The one thing not to do, however, is to dwell on a bad dream for the better part of your day, because if you do, all you are going to get from this is more reaffirming dreams that you are not mentally and emotionally aligned with your desire. That’s how we create vicious cycles that are so hard to get out of. You keep on feeling a certain way, then this is confirmed by your subconscious mind in the form of dreams. And then, you are disturbed by the dreams which you are replaying in your head again and again in your waking hours.

In order to break this vicious cycle, you need to understand that everything in your world comes from you, including your dreams, and your dreams are not meant to control you. Your dreams are just pointers to show you where you are and it’s up to you to change that by changing your story and your mental diet. Remember that the whole world is yourself pushed out.

If your overall feelings and emotions are still on the negative side, it’s up to you to make the decision to change that. Being on a spiritual journey is about change. If there was no change there would be no spiritual growth. And spiritual growth means understanding our human self from within. Since we are in this body and as long as we are in this body our spirituality will always be linked to our human self whether we like it or not. But that’s OK. Being on a spiritual journey doesn’t mean not being human with human feelings. Being spiritual just means that we understand and manage those feelings better.

If you are still emprisoned by negative feelings and emotions, ask yourself the honest question, why do I still feel this way?

Do you still feel abandoned? Do you still feel betrayed? Do you still feel hurt? Do you still feel not good enough? Do you still feel not deserving? If you still feel any of those things or any similar emotions, this is why your dreams and waking 3D life are not to your liking. And this is why you need to see them as friends rather than foes. Both dreams and circumstances in 3D are just showing us where we stand mentally and emotionally.

You need to go to the source of those negative feelings and ask yourself the question, why do I still feel this way? Unless you go to the source and answer that question, your specific desires may still elude you. So, whether you do it on your own, or you decide to ask for help for this, this is part of your spiritual growth and journey.

But again, at the end of the day, it’s all about YOU, and unless you heal you, there is no specific person, or money, or job and career on earth that will make YOU feel better. You may be under that illusion, but I promise you that’s just an illusion. You are the operant power, yes, but this means that it’s ‘all-inclusive’ since everything in your 3D comes from you.

Your Desire is YOU and You are Your Desire

Do not go seeking for that which you are. Those who go seeking for love only make manifest their own lovelessness and the loveless never find love. Only the loving find love and they never have to seek for it – Neville Goddard

I don’t think that there is a single manifesting coach that has not said or written plenty of times that the ONLY way to manifest love or your specific person is through understanding and practicing self-love, self-respect, self-esteem, self-confidence, and everything that’s included in what we call self-concept. And the keyword to notice in self-concept and all that it includes is the word SELF. Unless you work on YOUR-SELF your desires, including if it is another person will keep eluding you. As Neville beautifully said in the quote above seeking love only manifest lovelessness. This is true because if you are seeking love outside of you to feel loved, then you are not loving YOUR-SELF. On the other hand, when you learn how to truly love YOU, love is bound to seek you. As within, so without.

The reason why so many people are afraid to focus on loving themselves it’s because they have the erroneous belief that if they put the focus on THEM-SELVES, their sp will go away. But this is also a vicious cycle that so many in the manifesting community fall into. If this is what you believe, then you couldn’t be more wrong. Focusing on YOU and your self-concept not only will help you manifest your sp faster, but it’s the BEST way to manifest them back and the ONLY way to keep them for good.

So, don’t go seek outside for what you are lacking inside. Go within and practice self-love to the point that not only you will feel better about yourself and truly love yourself, but you are going to be a magnet for love whether you are manifesting a new person or an ex-partner.

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Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. Matthew 7:7

Do you believe that your desire is already yours? I know that if asked you the question, you might say, yes, but do you truly believe it? And why is it important that you do?

Believing that your desire is yours is the most important piece of the puzzle because unless you do, it won’t be possible for you to manifest it. Believing that what we are asking for is already ours is how we manifest. This is why, I, and all the other manifestation coaches out there teach you about all the different ways you can convince yourself of that fact.

The good news is that if you are reading this type of articles it means that you have enough of an open mind to be willing to learn about who you truly are and become a master manifestor.

The Reason You’ve Got Here

The main reason you’ve got here, in the Neville Goddard’s teaching community, it’s because you were asking for answers in one way or another. I know this because I could name plenty of people I know who would never end up in the Neville Goddard teaching community. They are simply not ready for this. But if you are reading this, it means that you are.

Maybe the reason you’ve got here it’s because you are trying to get your specific person back. Or maybe it’s because of something totally different. But no matter what the reason, here is your chance to really discover the truth about the world that surrounds you, and discover who you truly are.

You are not just a simple human being made of flesh and bone with a finite logical brain. You are the Operant Power. You are God of your reality. And what you used to believe to be so real and matter of fact is in fact just the mirror of your consciousness. You can and are manifesting your life according to what you are projecting from within. And if your life is not up to the level of what you want to experience, you have the power to change that. It is my intention that this article helps you understand this concept, so you can start changing your story from now on.

You’ve Been Manifesting Your Whole Life

If you will assume your desire and live there as though it were true, no power on earth can stop it from becoming a fact. – Neville Goddard

Your desire is yours the moment you have such desire. This is why manifesting is so easy and natural, and why you’ve been manifesting your whole life, way before you knew about the law of assumption. However, why is it that you’ve got so many things that you didn’ want then? Well, it’s because you’ve asked for them unknowingly based on your subconscious beliefs.

I know what you’re thinking. You’re thinking I haven’t asked for the bad things in my life. Well, you haven’t asked for them consciously, but you’ve asked for them subconsciously, based on your beliefs that were put there since your infancy. And the subconscious mind being totally impartial, as Neville said, whatever you’ve asked for unwilling was yours as well.

If you’ve learned subconsciously as a child that you don’t deserve to be loved, that there is no such thing as a good relationship, or that it’s hard to manifest money, these beliefs had no choice but to play out in your life, because you are the operant power. If you believe those things to be true, that’s what you are going to manifest. And that’s what you are going to manifest until you change such beliefs at the root.

The law is the law, and it works the exact same way for the things that you do want to experience and those that you don’t. There isn’t a bad man in the sky that decides if you do or do not deserve your desire. You can have it the minute you become conscious of this truth. It’s just that until now, you were trained to be conscious of and focus on the unwanted, thus by law this is what you’ve got.

You Desire is Devin in Origin and it is Yours

All you can possibly need or desire is already yours. Call your desires into being by imagining and feeling your wish fulfilled. Neville Goddard

Your desire is Devin in origin and it is yours because it’s law. You wouldn’t have the desire in the first place if you couldn’t have or achieve such desire. So if there is anything or anyone that you want to have in your life right now, you need to know once and for all that it is already yours. The only thing that stands between you and what you desire it’s your ego-human-self and its logical mind that has been programmed to believe the opposite because we have lied to our entire life.

Society at large doesn’t know and doesn’t teach that we are Gods and that we create what’s in front of us. The world that was portrayed to us since we were born was one of hard times, hardship, and all that negative stuff. On the other hand, we were told to believe that “if something sounds too good to be true, it probably is.” No wonder that with such heavy beliefs hanging over our heads since we came into this world, we have created a life that hasn’t been very easy on us.

But now that you know the truth, you need to leave behind pretty much everything that you used to believe in the past, because for the most part it is not going to serve you.

You are not this powerless, defenseless human being that you were taught to believe that you are. You are God of your reality and you have created (manifested) your whole world. All you had to do is assume that it was and it was. Because even though you are seeing your body, you are not your body, you are not your thoughts, you are not even your mind, you are God,. You are Awareness. And you create with your thoughts.

Don’t Doubt Your Desire

A few months ago, as I was putting my make-up on, I had noticed what appeared to be the beginning of a mole at the base of my eyelashes. But more recently, I noticed that it was growing. As soon as I noticed that I said, no way, this thing has to go away. Then, purposely I didn’t put any makeup on for over a week so I wouldn’t “notice” this thing and thus, don’t manifest more of it. And today, as I’m putting my makeup on for the first time in over a week, I see that the mole has completely disappeared.

That’s all it takes. Assume and believe that it is done, and it will. I didn’t visualize or say any specific affirmations, I just said, no way I’m going to accept this thing on my eye, it needs to be gone. And it did go away.

Don’t doubt your desire. No matter what it is. Whatever you want to happen in your life, whether it’s getting healthy, wealthy, travel, move to another country, or getting married to your specific person, you can have it. As a matter of fact, it’s already yours. if it wasn’t, you wouldn’t have the desire to start with.

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When we are manifesting better relationships with the people we love or interact with, we often come across this idea that they need to be the version you prefer in your mind already. This could sometimes feel conflicting because you can see one version and hold a different version of them as the ideal one.

How come you are still seeing the old version if you have already imagined a better version? Let’s break this down.

Old Versions

The unlovely version we have manifested, in our lives, of people we love, are just like the entire universe, rooted in our beliefs.

This isn’t an invitation to beat yourself up for it, but if you are new to these teachings it is important you understand that all of it is simply a result of your thoughts and beliefs whether they are about what you deserve, what this person is like or how relationships generally are.

If you already understand this idea, you must also understand that knowing you manifested it does not mean you have to continue holding your manifestation as a concluded outcome. If you are aware that you did it, it is okay – you can now let it go. If you keep feeling guilty, shameful or hurt that you did this to yourself, you will only create more of those feelings.

The Urge to Fight Thoughts

A common result of the previous realization is that we start feeling anxious about thinking the same thoughts. “Okay so I created this before so I better not think it again or I’ll just have more of it!” In thinking such things, tell me, where does your awareness lie? In the guilt or fear of what you are calling your mistake.

Firstly this was hardly a mistake because it led you to learn these wonderful teachings and knowing who you really are. I understand if you right now don’t care about that and I just sound like a typical big sister. It is important, nonetheless, to know that your judgment of these things being mistakes is a choice.

Fighting thoughts is a vicious loop to me. It creates inner conflicts, you start depriving your own mind and body of peace – its very natural state! This urge comes from something deeper. The old versions opened a wound that you have pain from and you are so afraid yet so sure that this pain is entirely possible in your life again.

And that is where your biggest hint is my love, in you believing that this pain is highly likely to happen again. What your insides are actually nagging you for is to process and let go of this pain, but since you have given the pain the image of your SP (specific person) you feel that you must “fix” your SP and your relationship to undo this pain.

You’re looking to somehow remove this pain and the paradox is the only way to remove it is to process it – to watch it in its presence and let it pass. In doing so, you are so aware of its passage that you easily shift. Bid farewell to these emotions and triggers with love.

In doing so you will be less afraid of your thoughts and will be able to watch them as debris making its way out from all the delicious work you did in processing your feelings. Your thoughts may control what you experience but they don’t control you. It is just that you were not aware of being the operant power, so you removed yourself as source from your own awareness and gave power to externalized factors.

Remember, your thoughts are not your shackles, they are generated within the self that you are being, that you are aware of. There is no need to fear thoughts, there is also no need to entertain them as possibilities if they are not ideal – and there is definitely no need to fight your own mind. It is yours, tune it, love it.

Changing Their Opinions?

Now that you recognize the old story, and understand you no longer need to fight your thoughts, you can simply let go of the ones that do not serve your intention – you can now think more about the ideal version.

Quite often at this stage, we start becoming aware of both. We, in our minds, are logically moving from point A to point B and playing hocus focus with the two versions. We start determining what we are adding and subtracting from these versions and start to think exactly what we would change about them. Behavior, looks, presence, and values, etc.

This, again, is a flawed idea in the world of manifestation. There is nothing to change to get one version over another. In thinking you need to mentally perform some actions to specifically change a certain version, you are acknowledging being with the older version.

In romantic relationships, this happens a lot – because something very dear to us is at stake; their opinion of us. If you are trying to deal with rejection, dismissal, being taken for granted, etc, you must understand that these are all based on the opinions you gave to their character about yourself. These opinions you have assigned to them are actually rooted in you and how you see yourself. Which is why it is unnecessary to change someone else because everything is rooted in you.

You are trying to change something within through something that has externalized. This does not mean you have to affirm such and such loves me all the time. You must find the opinions you are assuming they hold of you and then reach inside of yourself to find their roots. This is not a matter of healing, of fixing yourself – you are not broken. This is a matter of finding where you stand in order to shift.

A lot of the attachment, agony, frustration comes from us assuming they have a certain opinion of us and trying to avoid that, or fight it. Oftentimes, we then double down on saying no no I am in this relationship, it’s done, it’s done! But we are actually trying to suppress the actual feelings and opinions coming up inside us to avoid them. This is pure resistance – and you do not need this. There is nothing to change in their version, their opinion, their situation. There is nothing you need to change about how you two are right now.

Detach

When we keep these narratives of less ideal versions of them we start to validate it in our minds. It makes us feel like a victim. It is the familiar thing, we expected it, we manifested it or we accepted it as our reality. The more we notice the old version the more we plaster it in our minds.

It is okay if you still notice old stories, there is nothing you need to fear or rush. You must, however, understand that the only reason you are not accepting the new version is because it is unstable to your mind. Your mind reaches for the most plausible reality based on your beliefs. If you have a very annoying director at work and you say okay he is a good man – you will instantly feel stupid for complaining about him all this time. What will you tell your friends and family? He is some hero now? What, all of a sudden we all just like him?

Similarly, for someone who isn’t yet in your life but has shown little interest, what are you going to all of a sudden just have him/her as your partner? All that trouble they caused, somehow it is just going to vanish? I’m just supposed to see them without all these issues as if it was perfect?

In this discomfort or feeling of disbelief, you can recognize your attachment to how things are. It is not that you are not able to manifest this relationship to work, or you are blocked, or the universe isn’t working – no. You are simply attached to this certain storyline to the extent that you are not even ready to accept the other storyline.

The reason you are actually attached to it is very simple, you’re avoiding it. You’re resisting it. You’re avoiding whatever it felt or emotionally caused, or the realization that you have not treated yourself any better/held a better opinion of you. Accepting an ideal version seems uncomfortable or illogical because it would invalidate all that you know of a lesser preferred version.

Accepting Love and Truth

I repeat that it is okay to be where you are, to need to process all that you are processing. It is okay to feel what you feel. Once you accept the new truth you will never have to look back, you will never have to be back here. It is like monsters under your bed, if you just look underneath you will know there are no monsters. This confidence and trust is something to build within. To hone in on for your own self.

As you do this, and close the gaps that do not allow you to believe in a better reality for yourself, things will come up. This doesn’t mean you are in constant pain, the pain was erased the moment you acknowledged you’re okay now. These remaining fears and thoughts are simply leaving you. And in some cases, they don’t come up at all. In all cases, they don’t mean anything.

Knowing what you know now, you can say yeah, maybe it is crazy but that director is actually pretty good, and he is kind. He is a great director, I have witnessed his warmer supportive side now. You can say you know what, yeah, all of a sudden this guy is crazy about me, loves me and we have the most wonderful home. Logic may interject but you can overcome it because you know what – any incident/evidence cannot deter you. It just cannot. You know how this works, you become it before you experience it.

Notice that in doing this you are not actually focusing on changing them or their opinions. Your focus is on you accepting this as your truth. You are changing something within. You are filling in the cracks and saying yes I am okay, and in fact, I already am loved, I don’t know any other truth.

You are giving yourself the love, familiarizing yourself with it to the point that it is a natural reaction for these ideal versions of people to show up. They see it. They see you. I see you – in all your glory. See yourself in it.

Neville says that if your manifestation involves another person, they need to be accepting of the idea you have. And he also explains that everyone is you pushed out. So what does this mean? That you must be accepting of the truth you want them to hold, then it would become an idea they would be accepting of too.

If you want to be the most valuable person in someone’s life, you do not have to go to them to show them you are valuable or have yourself on billboards to be noticed by them. You have to accept being someone valued and noticed, loved, and prized. I am not asking you to become it, I am asking you to accept being it. Essentially, we only expect others to do for you what you are willing to do for yourself.

So today, ask yourself, who would I be if I only knew of versions of people that were ideal? Who would I be inside if those were my experiences? What is keeping me from adopting this feeling permanently? What am I carrying?

Remember, you are God either way – whatever you carry. So there is no need to be ashamed of what you are carrying. No need to judge it, or entertain it. You simply have to stare at it, decide if it is of value to you, and if it isn’t you simply do not have to own it. You can simply revise never having it, and move on.

I have done this, and I have changed people’s behaviors within minutes. I didn’t do it to change them, did not even think of who they are being, I simply shifted to being who I actually wish to be, what I wish to feel, and intended that I always only feel this way – their behavior adjusted immediately. You can assert anything you like and know you already are it. Assert things within and the outside will reflect your beauty. Make your assertions a valid command in your own mind, and do not worry about how it shall come about.

Famay is a designer, illustrator and writer living in Los Angeles with her cat. She loves diving deeper in teachings by Neville, and enjoys writing her observations. In her own life, she has very successfully used these teachings and created her dream life. 

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