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Take Responsibility For Your Life

In order to become a conscious master manifestor, the first thing that you need to do is to take responsibility for everything that has ever happened to you in the past. Why? Because unless you do, it means that you still believe that there is something out there, outside of yourself (second causes) that is throwing things at you and to which you are just a victim. While we may not always know or understand how we’ve manifested something, it is crucial that we understand that we did manifest it, regardless.

I speak to a lot of people every single day, and the main trend that I see it’s that many of you still believe that things just happen to you, and in a lot of cases, I can see that you do not fully grasp that whether or not you are conscious about it, you have manifested it. You have manifested your whole life, consciously or unconsciously, and until you fully grasp that, conscious manifesting will be tough for you.

So, if this is you, let’s see how taking responsibility can help you become a master conscious manifestor.

Your Whole Life is Your Manifestation

If you apply this law you can predict your future. Feel a new mood rise within you. Sustain it and soon you will meet people who embody this new state… Even inanimate objects are under the sway of these affinities. In a certain mood, I have gone to my library and removed a book I have not touched in years. And when I casually open it, I find confirmation of my mood. – Neville Goddard

Everything in your reality is a projection of you because it is your consciousness pushed out. Depending on what you feel right now, what end you are living in today, this is what you are going to manifest tomorrow. There is no way around this.

I speak with a lot of people who have manifested a collection of unwanted things, and it usually doesn’t take long for them to admit that they were in a crappy state when they manifested their unwanted situations. This quote from Neville, above, works for everything, both the wanted and the unwanted. When you sustain a certain mood (state) you will manifest people and circumstances that match it. And when you keep on telling that story to yourself and to others, you are making it all the more real for a little longer. It’s like, for some reason, it feels more comfortable to you to rehash the unwanted rather than cutting it off for good and move on to your desired state.

What Story Are You Rehashing

Sometimes I hear some of my clients say, I keep hearing my mother’s critics, I can’t forgive myself for this or that, I keep remembering that they said this or that… and the list goes on. But no matter what story you are rehashing over and over, it will keep on expanding into your future unless you put a stop to it.

Whatever your story, the moment you shift from the state that manifested it, it will vanish. And you as well as other people will start to act differently in your world. But unless you fully comprehend this, it will be difficult for you to make that shift in consciousness. You need to fully contemplate this truth because you can only fully comprehend what you are willing to contemplate and dig into.

You can obtain anything you desire because nothing is impossible to the creative power that resides within you. You can be and you can have all that you desire to be and to have. There is no limit to what you can accomplish for yourself and others. It doesn’t matter what your present circumstances are. – Neville Goddard – Imagination Creates Reality

The more you’ll come to understand that this “reality” is just a reflection of your mind, and that this world is NOT as solid as you were taught to believe, the more you will become a conscious manifestor able to live the life that you want to live.

The limitations that you think you have right now, were actually created by you. Because YOU are the operant power and there’s no one else that can create any circumstances for you, but you.

The Law is Not About Getting Things and People

Truth be told, many manifesting coaches have made it appear that this law is about getting things or people, that’s why there is a flock of people wanting to manifest their SP in this community, but the law is not about that, it’s about learning that imagination creates, and that your human imagination is your power. Unless you fully understand that the law works on you 24/7 and that it was never about getting things and people outside of you, but that it’s all about YOU from within, it will be hard for you to become the master conscious manifestor that you want to be.

Everyone in the world is using this only power, but they don’t know it. So he’s trying to bring us to the knowledge of this power and the wise use of it. It’s called– as we first quoted it– it’s called “The Pearl of Great Price.” So great is this pearl, so valuable, it takes everything that you own to buy it. Now you don’t go and liquidate your stocks and bonds… you don’t sell your homes; you don’t sell anything in the world of Caesar. But it takes everything that you now believe in other than it to pay for it. You believe in astrology? You’ve got to sell it. You believe in numerology, in teacup leaves, in numerology, and all these things? No matter what you believe in as a power to control you, you’ve got to sell it. – Neville Goddard – The Pearl of Great Price

There is nothing outside of you, and there is no power outside of you. It’s all you. Your desires don’t depend on signs or “bird before land” or anything that anyone could do in the world of Caesar. Your desires depend on you, and your wonderful human imagination that is at work day and night.

So, fully awaken to this truth and take full responsibility for everything that has ever happened to you thus far, and this will help you to better understand how the manifesting process works. Then, simply tweak your imagination to reap different results in the shadow world.

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Thoughts: Are You Investing Wisely? https://www.manifestingwithsylviane.com/thoughts-are-you-investing-wisely/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=thoughts-are-you-investing-wisely Thu, 03 Jun 2021 13:25:16 +0000 https://www.manifestingwithsylviane.com/?p=835 So, every moment of time, I’m either spending or I’m investing. Unfortunately, most of us spend the coin of heaven – and morning, noon, and night we live in negative states for which there’s no return – when we could easily not have spent, but invested that moment, so at the end of the day...

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Thoughts: Are You Investing Wisely

So, every moment of time, I’m either spending or I’m investing. Unfortunately, most of us spend the coin of heaven – and morning, noon, and night we live in negative states for which there’s no return – when we could easily not have spent, but invested that moment, so at the end of the day we really would have a wonderful portfolio. – Neville Goddard

We are not talking financial investment here, we are talking about your investment in thoughts. Neville compared the thoughts that we let wondering in our heads all throughout the day to investment because the thoughts that we are entertaining today (investing in today) will shape our tomorrow, just like return on investment. Ultimately, our thoughts are creating the state that we’re living from.

If I spend most of my waking hours thinking about the unwanted and the undesirable, this is an investment in thoughts that will result in some pretty negative interests. Since our life is nothing more than the reflection of our thoughts, we must become aware of what we are thinking about on a day to day, and even from hour to hour to minutes.

Granted, it is impossible for any of us to control every single thought, considering that according to experts, we have between 60,000 to 70,000 thoughts per day (almost a thought per second), but it is possible to learn to control our main thoughts and our daily thought patterns. True, at first it won’t feel natural or even comfortable to do so, because if you have had a life of uncontrolled wild negative thoughts of fears and doubts it’s going to feel strange and a bit tough at first to think positive thoughts, but if you want to change and transform your life it’s a must.

Albert Einstein said that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. This is most definitely one of his most popular quotes for the simple reason that we all know that it is true. If you have been thinking a certain way most of your life, the proof of your thinking pattern can be seen in the quality of your life right now. The two will always match. If you want your life experience to be different, however, you must start thinking differently.

If you do not like the quality of your life right now, if you want more money, if you want a better job, if you want a slimmer body, if you want better health, and if you want your dream relationship…, the first thing that you need to do is to check your thought pattern about it. Do your thoughts agree with your desire or do they agree with the lack of it? It is not uncommon that I hear some of my coaching clients say that they want something, but in the same breath saying something that reveals that they are thinking something totally opposite to what they want.

Why do you do this? Because you have not learned to control your thoughts, yet.

The first step to manifest your desire, no matter what it is, is to agree with it in thoughts. Your mental diet is made up of the recurring thoughts that you have on a daily basis, and which in turn, create your life.

What Leads to a Low Self-Concept

Neville said that every moment in time we are either spending or investing in thoughts. Every moment that you are wasting by entertaining unwanted thoughts, you are spending, you are squandering your thoughts unwisely. However, every moment that you make the effort to control the thought, to change the thought, to shift from one negative thought to a positive one, you are investing in your new portfolio. As Neville says, at the end of the day we really would have a wonderful portfolio, if we only took the time to make the effort to notice our thoughts and get into the habit of redirecting them where we want them to be.

If you have a low self-concept it means that what you think of yourself and what you think of yourself in regards to others comes from a place of lowliness. You feel that you are small, not good enough, unable, not deserving, not knowing, inadequate, rejected, and more. Now, what led you to feel this way? The only thing that led you to feel this way are the thoughts that you’ve been investing in for years and years. Therefore, it is not surprising that your return on investment is poor. Poor thinking habits equal poor concept of self and thus poor results in your physical world.

However, there is a remedy to this which is to start observing and redirecting your thoughts on a daily basis.

Consistency and Persistence is Key

But every moment of time you can have a most marvelous portfolio. And if they pass a dividend, it doesn’t matter. Devote every moment of your time to positive thinking – constructive thinking – by not accepting any rumor that doesn’t contribute to the fulfillment of your desire. No matter what it is – it could be the most obvious fact in the world – if it doesn’t contribute to the fulfillment of your dreams, don’t accept it. If you do, you’re spending.

No significant and permanent results happen overnight. Even your failures didn’t happen overnight, it happened because of continuous and persistent negative thoughts. Some of such thoughts are just about as old as you are. So, it is no surprise that it’s going to take some effort to notice, observe, and eliminate all the unwanted thoughts that are shaping your life right now. It can never be the other way around, though, you can’t expect to miraculously see positive results from the same mental diet and from the same thought pattern that manifested the unwanted in your life. The thought pattern has to change first if you want your life to reflect it. And here is the best way to do this.

  1. Observe your thoughts and write them down on a sheet of paper.
  2. Write the opposite of each one of those thoughts on a different sheet of paper.
  3. Destroy the sheet with the negative thoughts by burning it, as a psychological symbol of the destruction of those thoughts.
  4. Use your news list of contradicting and positive thoughts to create affirmations.
  5. Repeat those affirmations a few hundreds of times per day, until they replace your negative thoughts for good.

Trust me, this works. It’s worked for me and for so many others.

By using this simple exercise, you will be able to change your whole thought pattern for good and experience a shift in your concept of self. And thus, your whole life experience will be transformed. If you feel that you need structure and support to transform your thought pattern, you can book a coaching package with me or check the VIP Facebook group.

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Change Your Core Beliefs Before You Manifest Your Big Desire https://www.manifestingwithsylviane.com/change-your-core-beliefs-before-you-try-to-get-your-big-desire/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=change-your-core-beliefs-before-you-try-to-get-your-big-desire Thu, 06 May 2021 10:42:00 +0000 https://www.manifestingwithsylviane.com/?p=799 Are you “trying” to manifest that big desire of yours without changing the core beliefs that are keeping your desire out of reach? If your answer is yes, then this article is for you. I noticed that most people who land in the conscious manifesting community are in the ‘market’ of ‘getting’ someone or something....

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Are you “trying” to manifest that big desire of yours without changing the core beliefs that are keeping your desire out of reach? If your answer is yes, then this article is for you.

I noticed that most people who land in the conscious manifesting community are in the ‘market’ of ‘getting’ someone or something. And it is that burning desire that actually led them to discover the law of assumption and the teaching of Neville Goddard.

However, most of those people are making a fundamental mistake, and that mistake is to believe that they can get and KEEP their desire from the same self-concept in which they’ve lost it. The truth of the matter, however, it’s that it doesn’t work like that. So, if you want to avoid weeks, months, or even years of frustrations, here is something that you must understand before you start manifesting your big desire.

You Must Change From Within First

A man’s mental conversations attract his life. As long as there is no change in his inner talking, the personal history of the man remains the same. – Neville Goddard

Whether you don’t have the relationship that you desire, or don’t have the person that you want, or don’t have the money that you want, or anything else for that matter, it all stems from the state that you are in right now. Because it is impossible to have or experience something that is outside of the state that you are dwelling in. As per my own quote that I shared yesterday on my Instagram, you are under the impression that you have free will, but you don’t. Your free will is one hundred percent dependent on your state. And you can’t possibly take action based on a state that you’re not in.

Where does your state stem from? From your concept of self. From the core beliefs that you have about yourself. If you do not work on YOURSELF, on your self-concept, before you try to manifest your big desire, not only it will be difficult to manifest it, but even you manage to do so, you won’t be able to keep it for very long.

I could give you not only my own many examples but hundreds of other people’s examples when this truth has played out for me and for them. But to speak only for myself, I can tell you that I have had material possessions that I wasn’t able to keep, money that I wasn’t able to keep, and love that I wasn’t able to keep. Why? Because my self-concept was not up to the part. The state that I was in wasn’t a match to what I was briefly able to manifest. Therefore, I couldn’t sustain my manifestations for long.

This is, unfortunately, something that is rarely discussed in the manifesting community. A lot of coaches are telling you that you are the God of your reality and that you can be and have anything that you want, which is true, and I’ve said that myself as well, but they are forgetting to add that there is much more to manifesting than that. If you want to be able to manifest and keep your big desire, you must work on your self-concept first. There is no way around it.

This is why Neville didn’t just taught about manifesting your desire, but he also taught people to do self observation of their mental diet and inner conversations.

Manifesting Techniques Are Not Enough

Among the hundreds of people that I have coached so far, two main patterns emerged. First case scenario, their thinking pattern is so opposite to the state of having their desire that they can’t even manifest it at all. Second case scenario, they managed to manifest their desire because they are pretty good with the techniques, but because they haven’t worked on their concept of self, they are unable to keep their desire. They get their desire, but pretty soon their old self kicks in and they find themselves at square one.

Manifesting techniques are great, and if you do them correctly, you will manifest your desire one hundred percent of the time, but the techniques on their own will not change your thought pattern and deep core beliefs. While you can use your imagination to change your beliefs, imagining that you have your desire won’t change the beliefs themselves.

We observe a significant such pattern when it comes to relationship and money, especially. Let’s say you want to manifest a specific person, and more often than not, this person is an ex-partner who left you in the recent past. So, in your desperation to get them back, you discovered the teaching of Neville Goddard, the law of assumption, and you realized this was the answer to your problem.

You were told that you can get your ex back by simply affirming and/or visualizing that you have them back. You may have even gone deep into specific manifesting techniques such as SATS (state akin to sleep) visualization, which is creating a mental scene that implies that your are in the relationship that you desire to be. And maybe you’ve manifested that specific person of yours back into your life. But a few weeks or months later that person left you again.

Or, maybe, you are in the process of manifesting your specific person, but they are driving you crazy with their hot and cold behavior. You can’t seem to understand why one day they are all loving and willing and why the next they are cold and ignoring your texts.

Or, yet again, while you desire is to have enough money to be wealthy and financially free, you can’t ever seem to be able to either keep the money that you’ve managed to manifest, like it happened to me once upon a time, or you can’t seem to be able to crack the code to make the type of money that will change your life.

All of this is happening because you haven’t changed your core beliefs about yourself – your concept of self that will allow you to shift from the state that you are in right now to the state that can sustain your big desire.

Revise the Past Experiences that Have Created Your Beliefs

Be revising the past, you rid yourself of any effect it may have on your future. – Neville Goddard

I think that probably the biggest confusion among the teachings of Neville Goddard is that of revision. Most people I speak to seem to believe that revision changes the past or other people, but none of this is true. The purpose of revision is NOT about changing the past or other people, it’s about changing YOU and your future. And it is not about relieving negative events either. It’s about recreating them differently, so you will impress your subconscious mind with a different memory. A different memory than the one that created your negative or limiting beliefs. Revision will help you delete and change your limiting entrenched beliefs.

This is why revision is so powerful. This is why revision has changed some Neville Goddard’s students’ lives completely. This is why Neville said that if there was only one thing that he could teach among all the things that he taught, it would be revision.

So, how can you best revise your life to create a new self-concept?

  1. By going back to all the negative events of your life and revising them by creating new events, thus a new memory.
  2. By affirming every day that you are who you want to be.
  3. By using your imagination to embody the state of who you want to be. The state that can contain and sustain your desire.
  4. By watching your inner conversations to make sure that they do not conflict with your hard work.
  5. By maintaining this healthy mental diet for the rest of your natural life.

If you do this, you will not only be able to manifest your big, medium, and small desires, but you will be in a position of keeping them.

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Where Are Your Insecurities Coming From? https://www.manifestingwithsylviane.com/where-are-your-insecurities-coming-from/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=where-are-your-insecurities-coming-from Thu, 01 Apr 2021 14:16:38 +0000 https://www.manifestingwithsylviane.com/?p=748 Do you know that you weren’t born with any of the insecurities that you have? Yes, that’s right. And the reason why it’s that all your insecurities were learned. Most of them started when you were a child, and others later in life. But the good news is that you can use the teaching of...

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Do you know that you weren’t born with any of the insecurities that you have? Yes, that’s right. And the reason why it’s that all your insecurities were learned. Most of them started when you were a child, and others later in life. But the good news is that you can use the teaching of the law of assumption to remove all your insecurities fast. The reason I decided to write this blog article today it’s because I realized that the state of being insecure is still way too common even in the conscious manifestors’ community, so hopefully this article can help you.

No matter how deep your insecurities are, not only you can get rid of them, but it doesn’t have to be a process as some coaches who don’t know about the law want to make you believe. You can get rid of the old man for good and as fast as you want it to happen. You can turn your life around completely. Let’s see how.

Your Insecurities Come from Your State of Consciousness

Whatever the mind of man can conceive and feel as true, the subconscious can and must objectify. Your feelings create the pattern from which your world is fashioned, and a change of feeling is a change of pattern. – Neville Goddard

Your quality of life depends on your state of consciousness. Every single thought that you have, from the least important one to the most consequent one, comes from the content of your consciousness.

You cannot possibly experience anything outside of your state of consciousness. To take my own example, I was a victim for the better part of my life because it was part of my state of consciousness. It’s not something that I was born with, but it’s something that I learned at an early age, and the moment I accepted that state to be true for me, it remained active in my life for decades. There wasn’t any power outside of me that kept this in place because it was all me. As Neville said, we are the operant power, it doesn’t operate itself. No state of consciousness can exist unless we are feeding it.

Whatever it is that you are now aware of being which is not your preferred state must be disposed of, let go of, rejected… in order to no longer be active in your consciousness, and thus, in your life. But if you do not take the necessary steps to do so, it will remain for the whole duration of your life in this body.

Your State of Consciousness is Subconscious

Your subconscious mind, whose natural state is sleep, sees you as you believe yourself to be, and whether it be good, bad, or indifferent, the subconscious mind will faithfully embody your belief. – Neville Goddard – Feeling is the secret.

Your insecurities are imbedded beliefs, memories, and emotions in your subconscious mind. What you are today, or more precisely what you believe that are you, has been stored in your subconscious mind. The subconscious mind is that big storage house where all your beliefs, experiences, and memories are stored from even before you were born at times. This is what has dictated your external experiences your whole life. However, no matter how deep those beliefs are imbedded in your subconscious mind, they can be changed, and they can be changed fast.

Some so-called subconscious mind experts have actually implanted in people the false belief that it it “hard” to remove a subconscious belief, but I and other known manifesting coaches in the manifesting community have been telling people that this is not true, because, we were able to removed some deeply entrenched subconscious beliefs of our own, that we had had our whole lives, in a very short time. As a conscious manifestor, all it takes it’s the desire to do so, and intend that it’s done.

That’s how I removed my limiting beliefs about relationships and money, among other things. Interestingly, when I used to believe that it was “difficult” it was. I didn’t realize that such an assumption was making it difficult for me to remove them. But once I learned about the law and started to understand that I was the Operant Power, all of a sudden it became much easier and faster. That limiting belief alone, was keeping my unwanted subconscious beliefs in place.

Manifest The NEW You

You have no one to change but yourself, and you have neither opponent nor helper in bringing about the change within yourself. – Neville Goddard – Feeling is the Secret

There is no one to change but self, and there is no one to blame or praise but self. If you feel insecure about life today, or about any particular area of your life, it’s a self-inflicted “curse.” It’s as if you had built your own prison, even thought most of those insecurities came from those who raised you and the society that you grew up in. Nonetheless, once we come to these teachings, we can no longer hide behind excuses. No matter how comfortable excuses may feel at times.

In some cases, we have been a victim for so long that it feels comfortable. Often times, it feels ‘home’ to be a victim, so, our subconscious mind is very attached to that victim state of ours, and doesn’t want to let it go. But if you have come to these teachings it’s because you wanted to ‘fix’ a problem, you wanted to understand something that had eluded you until now. If this is your case, then you’ve got to let go of your insecurities, because you have found the teaching that will change your life. Throw the old may away, and embody the new you where your insecurities no longer exist.

By the way, let me take this opportunity to tell you that me and Andreza Soares, who is a coach in my team, have created a VIP group that you can join to turbo charge your manifesting powers and get rid of your insecurities for good. You can join it here.

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Your Imagination Creates Your Reality https://www.manifestingwithsylviane.com/imagination-creates-your-reality/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=imagination-creates-your-reality Thu, 18 Mar 2021 14:06:41 +0000 https://www.manifestingwithsylviane.com/?p=712 What are you imagine? What are you imagining to be true? Each time I receive an email from a client, or a message with a question, or the many questions that people ask me through my Facebook group, I can tell pretty quickly what they’ve been imagining. The problem is that, for the most part,...

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What are you imagine? What are you imagining to be true? Each time I receive an email from a client, or a message with a question, or the many questions that people ask me through my Facebook group, I can tell pretty quickly what they’ve been imagining. The problem is that, for the most part, what they are imagining is NOT in line with what they want.

Life always externalizes what you have imagined. – Neville Goddard

What you are imagining now, will determine what you are going to externalize in your physical world tomorrow, because imagination creates reality. So, why don’t start, NOW, to imagine your desired outcome? Does it seem difficult for you? If so, keep on reading.

What are you Truly Imagining?

Your reactions, whether positive or negative, are creative of future circumstances. In your imagination, you can hear words congratulating you on getting a wonderful new job. That imaginal act now goes forward and you will encounter this pleasant experience in the future. Neville Goddard

So, let’s say you are consciously manifesting your desire using whatever technique or techniques work best for you. But there are 24 hours in a day. So, let say you are affirming a total of 30 minutes out of those 24 hours that your desire is yours, and then you are visualizing another 20 minutes out of that day, implying that your desire is yours. But what happens with the 23 hours that are left? Are doubting, are you worrying? Are you wondering? Are you wandering in your thoughts?

Additionally, are you thinking that if you don’t affirm that day it won’t happen? Are you thinking that maybe you’re not doing enough? Are you worrying that you can’t visualize very well? If you are imagining any of those things, then, you are NOT imagining your wish fulfilled, and you are forgetting that YOU manifest your desires, not the techniques. Don’t give the techniques what’s yours, because that, too, is imagination at work and it manifests. Don’t create the belief that if you don’t practice this or that technique you won’t be able to manifest your desire.

None of this is true.

In the quote above, Neville says, your reaction, whether positive or negative are creative of your future circumstances. If you are imagining anything that goes against having or being your desire, then, that imaginal act has to manifest in your physical world. If you are thinking the way I described above, then what you are truly imagining it’s that you don’t have your desire.

So, why are you imagine the opposite of what you want?

What is the Cause of Your Imagination?

Your Imagination is YOU yourself, and the world as your Imagination sees it is the real world. – Neville Goddard

What you are imagining comes from your self-concept. If you have a poor concept of self, your imagination is going to be “poor,” if you have a high concept of yourself, you are going to be able to easily imagine that you can have whatever you want. When you find it difficult to imagine that you are in that relationship that you want so much, it’s a self-concept issue. When you have a hard time seeing yourself handling that job that you want, it’s a self-concept issue. When you have trouble feeling wealthy, it’s a self-concept issue. Even when you accept yourself being sick, it’s a self-concept issue.

Your self-concept is what you accept to be true for you. It’s the sum total of your assumptions. It’s what creates the content of your consciousness. What you have agreed to be conscious of. And your consciousness creates your reality.

If you find it hard to control your imagination. If you find it hard to remain in the state of your wish fulfilled. The primary cause is self-concept.

When you change your concept of self, your whole being changes. The way you think of yourself changes, the way you think of other people changes and the way the world appears to you changes. Everything in your reality changes with your self-concept. When that happens, what you are imagining all day long will be totally different. You will be imagining that you are what you want to be much more easily. It’s going to become second nature. You are going to be able to live in the end of your wish fulfilled naturally.

Living in End is Forever

An awakened imagination works with a purpose. It creates and conserves the desirable, and transforms or destroys the undesirable. – Neville Goddard

Living in the end happens in your imagination first. But living in the end is NOT a technique, it’s a way of life. That’s why you don’t live in the end just to manifest your desire, you live in the end as long as you want to KEEP your desire because the moment you stop being in that state you’ll lose it. Even when your desire has hardened into fact, you need to keep on living in the end of having it in order to keep it.

That’s why it’s not because you have the SP that you’ll keep them. It’s not because you have the money that you’ll keep it. It’s not because you have the job that you’ll keep it. It’s not because you are healthy, that you’ll keep on being that way. You will keep all those things as long as you keep on living in the end of having them. If for some reason you shifted into a state that implies that you don’t have those things anymore, you would lose them. That’s why nothing is set in stone and things can change fast. As fast as you can shift from a state, as fast as you can start imagining something different.

This is why the law is not a magic pill that we swallow once and all is well, the law is a way of life. Once we have become a conscious manifestor we have to keep on using our powerful imagination to maintain what we have. If we went back to our old ways, we would lose them. Living in the end of your wish fulfilled is forever, or as long as you want to keep it.

Become Aware of What You are Imagining

When will and imagination are in conflict, imagination invariably wins. – Neville Goddard

Whether or not you are aware of it, you are imagining all the time. The question is what are you imagining?

Unlike your ‘old man’ self, you need to become aware of what you are imagining. Checkup with yourself several times a day. If you need to, set a timer every couple of hours to remind yourself of what you’ve just been imagining. If what you been imagining matches your wish fulfilled, keep up the good work, congratulations. But if not, readjust your thinking and redirect your imagination. An awakened imagination works with a purpose, so be aware of what you are imagining all throughout the day, so you won’t get any surprises when your imagination hardens into fact. On the contrary, you will be manifesting exactly what you’ve been imagining because imagination creates reality.

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Letting Go – The Balance Between Persistence and Detachment When Manifesting https://www.manifestingwithsylviane.com/letting-go/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=letting-go Thu, 25 Feb 2021 13:21:35 +0000 https://www.manifestingwithsylviane.com/?p=686 In the manifesting community, there is major confusion about the term “letting go.” So many think it means forgetting about the desire. Many of us have come to the Law of Assumption via the Law of Attraction. Here we were taught to choose our desire, pick a manifesting technique and then “let it go.” However,...

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In the manifesting community, there is major confusion about the term “letting go.” So many think it means forgetting about the desire. Many of us have come to the Law of Assumption via the Law of Attraction. Here we were taught to choose our desire, pick a manifesting technique and then “let it go.” However, I believe, that even in the Law of Attraction community, letting go does not mean: do not think about your desire anymore. What letting go really means, is to let go of the feelings of lack around wanting the desire.

Living in the End and Neville

Neville Goddard never seems to have used the term letting go. The closest he comes to it, is mentioning “living in the end” as in “Feeling is the Secret” when he says:

“Call your desires into being by imagining and feeling your wish fulfilled. As the end is accepted, you become totally indifferent as to possible failure, for acceptance of the end wills the means to that end.”

You notice from this quote that Neville speaks of indifference. But for some, this may be easier said than done. When it comes to manifesting something we crave, whether love, money, perfect health or a new home, how do we balance the burning desire with the ability to be unbothered by its blatant absence from the 3d world?

In plain English, living in the end or letting go, means not stressing over whether manifesting is working, nor checking every five minutes to see if anything has changed.

It also means that natural action should be completely natural and not obsessive. A concrete example of this would be say – if manifesting a desired career. Having intended this, you may feel like searching online for work. If it feels natural you just know it, but if you become absorbed in a three-hour search wondering why there are no ads for your career and why your manifestation isn’t happening, then you aren’t living in the end and you are not letting go. You are not allowing things to unfold. Your action towards this desire is not natural. All of these things – taking actions naturally, living in the end, letting go – are all inter-connected.

How Can I be Indifferent to What I Want?

When Neville speaks of indifference, he doesn’t mean you just have to shrug your shoulders and say, “I don’t care whether I get this or not.” Our desires spring from the central desire to progress in life, to be happy. No one ever consciously manifests, in order to experience misery, not usually. It is natural that our desires fill us with thoughts that we will be happier with them, than without them. However this attachment is a stumbling block for many, especially in the areas of health and the perennial Specific Person. And here is the tricky thing, for how does a human, even when they know they are God, lean into the knowing, persist and let go of the grasping desperation at the same time?

Being Present

Change your conception of yourself and you will automatically change the world in which you live. Neville Goddard

It is about being present. It is about knowing what you want and why you want it and by practising whatever technique or affirmations you use, and persisting. So you express the faith of it being possible and at the same time by not constantly questioning, you are letting go. You are accepting. You are allowing. Regular, relaxed practice (scripting, visualising, affirming) is an act of faith which in itself is letting go, when performed with confidence.

I can liken letting go to a recent experience, when I admired some wind-chimes hanging from a tree in someone’s garden. I longed to hear them play but there was no breeze. I decided to detach so I turned my back, all the while thinking how pleasant it would be to hear them. Then I took out my phone and I went on Facebook. While I was absorbed in responding to someone on there, the chimes began to play. This is what I feel detachment is. It is when we want something, but we become absorbed in living, knowing the world is greater than our desire. Having expressed the desire and given it space to manifest by not pouring anxiety or impatience on it, the desire can breathe.  

It is not the same as giving up, yet conversely, when we energetically move away from some desire, it comes in. For example, I once had a strong desire for several years that a neighbor of mine would move. I consciously manifested a new apartment – despite the 3d telling me no – and within one month of moving into it, the neighbor above my old apartment moved out! This kind of happening often confuses people into thinking that they can only get their desires if they give up which they think is the same as letting go. But what has really happened is that the lack and the desire were pushing and pulling against each other. When one was dropped (the lack) the desire came in.

How do we learn to be present?

By turning our attention to ourselves – to whom we want to be, and to whom we think we will become if we have our desire. By knowing that this person we wish to be, is already alive within us. This is where self-concept is important. Think about when you pick up sand from the beach and you hold it very tightly, but it runs through your fingers. There is a fine art between wanting the desire and bringing it in, calm and centered in the knowing that conscious manifesting is real. It takes commitment to both your desire and to the belief in your own power.

So today, perhaps you wish to add a new affirmation to your repertoire. “It is easy for me to let go, knowing I always get what I want,” and no matter what is going on around you right now, take a few seconds to breathe, to calm yourself, and affirm, “everything in my life is perfect.” Turn your attention away, turn your back from what is lacking and focus on the still center within you. Less effort is what is required.

As Neville says, “Your desires are the invisible realities which respond only to the commands of God.” Those commands are yours. Assume it is done and it is.

Written by Nell

Nell lives and works in Britain. Discovering conscious manifesting years ago changed her life for the better. Now she is changing it even more with Neville Goddard’s teachings. She loves to write. She intends her words inspire other manifestors to find the path of least resistance to their dreams. 

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How to Live a Life of Ease https://www.manifestingwithsylviane.com/how-to-live-a-life-of-ease/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=how-to-live-a-life-of-ease Thu, 18 Feb 2021 13:36:25 +0000 https://www.manifestingwithsylviane.com/?p=676 Over a decade ago, I remember reading an eBook from a personal development coach, and somewhere in that eBook she mentioned a friend of hers who was living a life of perfect ease getting everything she wanted just by knowing that she could. Back then, I was clueless about the fact that we are God,...

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live a life of ease

Over a decade ago, I remember reading an eBook from a personal development coach, and somewhere in that eBook she mentioned a friend of hers who was living a life of perfect ease getting everything she wanted just by knowing that she could. Back then, I was clueless about the fact that we are God, and apparently, that coach was too, since she didn’t know how to explain that. But I remember pondering about that woman who had such a life of ease and how this could be possible, considering the fact that my life back then was everything but easy.

Today, however, when I think about that story that I read all those years ago, I understand that this woman simply knew that she was God within and that she could have anything she wanted because that’s law. But how many of you, reading this post today, while being in the manifesting community, have that kind of faith in your power? If you are not quite there, yet, this article is for you.

Your Desire is Yours

All you can possibly need or desire is already yours. Call your desires into being by imagining and feeling your wish fulfilled. – Neville Goddard

The reason most of us struggle in this life, it’s because it’s what we’ve learned to do since infancy. Unfortunately for us, we weren’t Neville’s children, so we didn’t have parents that could ever teach us the truth of the quote above. On the contrary, we heard quite the opposite, such as life is hard, money doesn’t grow on trees, we have to work hard for money, you can’t have it all in life, what’s worth it don’t come easy, etc… The list of limiting beliefs that came our way before we even reached the age of 10 is actually pretty scary when looking at it from a conscious manifestor point of view, but it is the truth. That’s why we are where we are now in our beliefs.

So, no wonder, that even after having discovered the law of assumption and read all Neville Goddard’s books and lectures, we still have doubts, and we are still making life harder than it needs to be. But what about giving full faith to Neville’s quotation above and truly start believing it with your whole? What would you have to lose if you did? The truth of the matter is that you wouldn’t have anything to lose, but rather, your life would be transformed for the better.

Just Believe and it is True

If you will assume your desire and live there as though it were true, no power on earth can stop it from becoming a fact. – Neville Goddard

It’s interesting, that at times in my life, I had moments where I thought that life couldn’t be that bad. I couldn’t believe that I was born to suffer or to live a life that I didn’t want to live. Or even having to do things that I didn’t want to do. Today, reading all the emails that I receive and stories that I hear from my clients, I see that I’m not the only one who has had the thought that there had to be more to life than what we were taught and were experiencing. Today, I am convinced that when we had those thoughts, feelings, and desires for a better life, way before we discover teachings such as what Neville taught, we already knew that we were more than we had been told.

Our true-self, already knew that what we were living was not what life was supposed to be like, and it was trying to come through us, even though at the time we didn’t truly understand it. And soon after the thought crossed our mind we got busy with 3D circumstances and somehow fell asleep again. Then, eventually, we finally discovered the law of assumption which usually was preceded by the law of attraction, oftentimes a necessary stepping stone, since at the base it is the same thing, except for the fact that there are still lots of limiting beliefs there.

But when you finally discover the law of assumption, you realize that you don’t even have to ask the universe for what you want, because you know that YOU ARE the universe and that the universe is within you. And this is why you can have anything you have ever wanted, just by saying so, and believing that it is done. You are no longer subject to “rules” because you now know that you can actually MAKE your own rules.

So, the logical question that you might have at this point is, so why is my life is still the way it is?

Why is Your Life Still the Way it is?

Stop trying to change the world since it is only the mirror. Man’s attempt to change the world by force is as fruitless as breaking a mirror in the hope of changing his face. Leave the mirror and change your face. Leave the world alone and change your conceptions of yourself. – Neville Goddard

One of the most misunderstood truth, even in the manifesting community, it’s that we do not need to change anything out there. Ever. The only thing that we need to change in order to be able to transform our lives and have anything and anyone we want, it’s us. YOU are the only person that needs to change if you want your life to change. That’s it. But it is because you believe that all the things that you are observing out there need to change on their end that makes it impossible for you. It is literally as if you were screaming at the mirror instead of changing what’s in front of the mirror.

As Neville says in the quote above, attempting to change the world is useless because all we have to change is our conception of self. But there lies the reason why even for those who have discovered the law of assumption, life is still not easy. It’s because they are still reaching out there for what they want, rather than dwelling in the knowing that it is all within. That it is done. That there’s no other required effort but simply knowing that.

Manifesting Your Desires is Not a Fight

Because we were raised in a society that believes that “we’ve got to fight for what we want.” It feels rather unnatural to believe that we can have what we want so easily. So even as conscious manifestors, we feel the need to have to work for our desire. A very good example of that is when manifesting a specific person. I can tell you for a fact, that you do not have to do anything, but knowing that your sp is yours to manifest them, but it’s because you believe that you’ve got to do something that you have to do something in order to manifest them.

This is so because what you assume to be true will always be true to you. When I manifested the man of my life, I didn’t believe that I had to affirm, or do anything else, but simply assuming that he was mine, and that’s why it worked that way for me. I never affirmed, I never visualized, I just assumed, and then pretty much went on with my life. Two months after my assumption, we were in a relationship.

However, every time that you assume, consciously or unconsciously, that it’s a fight to manifest your sp, it is going to be a fight for you. The law, as impartial as it is will never contradict you. As Neale Donald Walsch says, “God doesn’t know the word no.” Whatever you decide to be true will be true to you. So, with this truth in mind, why would you want to embody the belief that it is hard to manifest your desires? Why would you want to make it hard to manifest your sp?

You desire, your person, are not outside of you, they are YOU pushed out, and they are just waiting to be manifested by you. All you have to do is declare what you want, assume that it’s done, and let it come to you without blocking it with your opposite thoughts. This is how you manifest everything. So manifest away your desires, and see how easy it is.

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Manifesting is a Spiritual Journey https://www.manifestingwithsylviane.com/manifesting-is-a-spiritual-journey/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=manifesting-is-a-spiritual-journey Fri, 06 Nov 2020 13:51:37 +0000 https://www.manifestingwithsylviane.com/?p=564 Many of you have discovered the teaching of Neville Goddard because you were in a search for a specific person, namely a lover or ex-partner that you wanted back in your life. And if you still are manifesting that specific person with a desperate need to do so, you may be missing the point completely....

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manifesting is a spiritual journey

Many of you have discovered the teaching of Neville Goddard because you were in a search for a specific person, namely a lover or ex-partner that you wanted back in your life. And if you still are manifesting that specific person with a desperate need to do so, you may be missing the point completely.

The reason I decided to write on this topic it’s because I see so many people in the manifesting community being so focused on that, that they are completely forgetting themselves in the process. If you are doing this, then you are missing the point, and this article is for you.

It is Not About a Specific Person

It was never about your sp. Yes, you did land on the manifesting/law of assumption community because you wanted to get the love of your life back, but this was just an excuse for you to discover who you truly are, because your world is YOUR consciousness out, not that of your sp no matter how much in love you are with them, no matter how much you feel that you are meant to be together, and no matter how much you believe that you are soulmates.

The reason why you discovered this teaching that is still eluding most people walking the earth it’s because YOU were ready for this. Nonetheless, your human-self, being what it is, might have gotten in the way forcing you to focus too much on outer results and not enough on spiritual growth. However, the truth is that if you take on that spiritual awakening journey, every single of your desires will fall in your lap.

Learn to Go Within to Manifest

A very common mistake that I see in the manifesting community it’s that a lot of people are trying to fix their problems from without when the root of the problem comes from within. A good example of this it’s when people get panicky when they have a dream contrary to their desire. More often than not it’s about a specific person. They do not understand how dreams work so they get all confused and even disturbed by dreams that they sometimes even take literally.

When a dream is to be taken literally, you will never question it, you will know. I’ve had a couple of such dreams in my life and they feel totally different. I promise you that you’ll never confuse such a dream with a regular dream. On the other hand, when you have “regular” dreams, which are much more common, even if you don’t feel good about them, you know they are just dreams. The reason why they do not match your desire it’s simply because those dreams are giving you a hint that your subconscious beliefs do not quite match your desires yet. In such a case, instead of feeling sad and depressed about it, simply take this as a sign that you have to keep on working on yourself. And if you persist in doing this, your dreams are bound to match your desires eventually.

The one thing not to do, however, is to dwell on a bad dream for the better part of your day, because if you do, all you are going to get from this is more reaffirming dreams that you are not mentally and emotionally aligned with your desire. That’s how we create vicious cycles that are so hard to get out of. You keep on feeling a certain way, then this is confirmed by your subconscious mind in the form of dreams. And then, you are disturbed by the dreams which you are replaying in your head again and again in your waking hours.

In order to break this vicious cycle, you need to understand that everything in your world comes from you, including your dreams, and your dreams are not meant to control you. Your dreams are just pointers to show you where you are and it’s up to you to change that by changing your story and your mental diet. Remember that the whole world is yourself pushed out.

If your overall feelings and emotions are still on the negative side, it’s up to you to make the decision to change that. Being on a spiritual journey is about change. If there was no change there would be no spiritual growth. And spiritual growth means understanding our human self from within. Since we are in this body and as long as we are in this body our spirituality will always be linked to our human self whether we like it or not. But that’s OK. Being on a spiritual journey doesn’t mean not being human with human feelings. Being spiritual just means that we understand and manage those feelings better.

If you are still emprisoned by negative feelings and emotions, ask yourself the honest question, why do I still feel this way?

Do you still feel abandoned? Do you still feel betrayed? Do you still feel hurt? Do you still feel not good enough? Do you still feel not deserving? If you still feel any of those things or any similar emotions, this is why your dreams and waking 3D life are not to your liking. And this is why you need to see them as friends rather than foes. Both dreams and circumstances in 3D are just showing us where we stand mentally and emotionally.

You need to go to the source of those negative feelings and ask yourself the question, why do I still feel this way? Unless you go to the source and answer that question, your specific desires may still elude you. So, whether you do it on your own, or you decide to ask for help for this, this is part of your spiritual growth and journey.

But again, at the end of the day, it’s all about YOU, and unless you heal you, there is no specific person, or money, or job and career on earth that will make YOU feel better. You may be under that illusion, but I promise you that’s just an illusion. You are the operant power, yes, but this means that it’s ‘all-inclusive’ since everything in your 3D comes from you.

Your Desire is YOU and You are Your Desire

Do not go seeking for that which you are. Those who go seeking for love only make manifest their own lovelessness and the loveless never find love. Only the loving find love and they never have to seek for it – Neville Goddard

I don’t think that there is a single manifesting coach that has not said or written plenty of times that the ONLY way to manifest love or your specific person is through understanding and practicing self-love, self-respect, self-esteem, self-confidence, and everything that’s included in what we call self-concept. And the keyword to notice in self-concept and all that it includes is the word SELF. Unless you work on YOUR-SELF your desires, including if it is another person will keep eluding you. As Neville beautifully said in the quote above seeking love only manifest lovelessness. This is true because if you are seeking love outside of you to feel loved, then you are not loving YOUR-SELF. On the other hand, when you learn how to truly love YOU, love is bound to seek you. As within, so without.

The reason why so many people are afraid to focus on loving themselves it’s because they have the erroneous belief that if they put the focus on THEM-SELVES, their sp will go away. But this is also a vicious cycle that so many in the manifesting community fall into. If this is what you believe, then you couldn’t be more wrong. Focusing on YOU and your self-concept not only will help you manifest your sp faster, but it’s the BEST way to manifest them back and the ONLY way to keep them for good.

So, don’t go seek outside for what you are lacking inside. Go within and practice self-love to the point that not only you will feel better about yourself and truly love yourself, but you are going to be a magnet for love whether you are manifesting a new person or an ex-partner.

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How Your Concept of Self Will Shift Your World https://www.manifestingwithsylviane.com/concept-of-self/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=concept-of-self https://www.manifestingwithsylviane.com/concept-of-self/#comments Thu, 24 Sep 2020 16:16:37 +0000 https://www.manifestingwithsylviane.com/?p=513 To reach a higher level of being, you must assume a higher concept of yourself. To desire a state is to have it. “I AM” (your true self) is not interested in man’s opinion. … Your true self, will cause these conceptions to appear in your world and you will live with them as though they are real.”...

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concept of self

To reach a higher level of being, you must assume a higher concept of yourself. To desire a state is to have it. “I AM” (your true self) is not interested in man’s opinion. … Your true self, will cause these conceptions to appear in your world and you will live with them as though they are real.” – Neville Goddard

Most of us have landed on Neville Goddard’s teaching (the law of assumption) because we had a very low concept of self to start with. As a matter of fact, a large majority of the people in the manifesting community are people who have been dumped by an ex that they are still very much in love with. It is that deep wound that led them to discover the everyone is you pushed out theory which comes from Neville Goddard’s teaching.

The mains reason why we have discovered this conscious manifesting community was because of our concept of self.

What is Your Concept of Self?

In short, your concept of self is how you see, believe, and think of yourself. Your concept of self is the identity that you’ve given to yourself. Your concept of self includes self-love as well, but it is not limited to self-love. Even though your concept of self is an inside job, it is felt in every area of your physical life and it is felt by other people, consciously or unconsciously. For example, as soon as I speak to a new client, I have a pretty good idea of their concept of self. And as far as I can tell, I am never wrong.

This is why your concept of self or self-concept is the most important thing that you need to work on whether you want to manifest your ex (your specific person) back or anything else in your life. As Neville says in the quote above, your concept of self will appear in your world, because the whole vast world is yourself push out. So long as you do not change your concept of self, your life will be the same. So, if you are not where you want to be in your life right now, your concept of self should be your number one priority. Even if you’re after a specific person that you perceive to be “outside” of yourself.

Why You Lost Your SP

Because of your belief in external things you think power into them by transferring the power that you are to the external thing. Realize you yourself are the power you have mistakenly given to outer conditions. – Neville Goddard

You could read one experience after another and you would undoubtedly find a common thread among all those hundreds of SP experiences out there. And that common thread is that the person who was dumped has had or have developed a low concept of self at some point. They started feeling anxious, insecure, jealous, fearful, and other feelings related to low concept of self. As a result, their world had to conform to their concept of self.

When you are in love with someone, that person is the first person that is going to reflect your concept of left, and that’s why they have no choice but to “abandon” you. They abandoned you because you have abandoned yourself first. You, yourself, had feelings and beliefs of not being good enough and not deserving love. Therefore, what you had deemed yourself to be had to be reflected in the person that you loved and loved you, because they are YOU pushed out.

You have not been dumped by your SP because of reasons outside of you. You had, in fact, abandoned your-self because of your concept of self. Your concept of self will create the perfect recipe for people to stick to you or to leave you, to be loyal to you, or to betray you, to respect you, or to disrespect you. And this is regardless of who you “think” those people are. In your reality, they can only be a reflection of you anyway.

I have often spoken of my own story here in this blog and on my YouTube channel, about how I was the queen of changing people from their Dr. Jekyll version to their Mr. Hide version. I have seen people changing their behavior toward me from one end of the spectrum to the other, to the point that I couldn’t recognize them anymore. I have done this all throughout the better part of my life until I learned about the law of assumption. All that time, not knowing that those people, were just reflecting my own low concept of self.

People in your life have no choice but to conform to your concept of self. To what you believe and assume about yourself, which will most likely dictate what you believe and assume about others.

How to Shift Your Physical World

I AM (your true self) is not interested in man’s opinion. All its interest lies in your conviction of yourself. What do you say of the I AM within you? Can you answer and say, “I AM Christ”? Your answer or degree of understanding will determine the place you will occupy in life. Do you say or believe yourself to be a man of a certain family, race, nation, etc.? Do you honestly believe this of yourself? Then life, your true self, will cause these conceptions to appear in your world and you will live with them as though they are real. – Neville Goddard

Neville didn’t say that in order to change your life you need to be taller, slimmer, richer, or even smarter. He said that in order to change your world you must ASSUME a higher concept of yourself. The shift that you have to make is an inner shift, it has nothing to do with outer appearances. The outer “reality” means nothing because it’s just the effect, your inner world is the cause. What matters is what you assume in your mind, in your consciousness, which is the only reality.

When you want to manifest a specific person, if you do manage to manifest them back without changing your concept of self, how long will you be able to keep them? I see so many people focusing on manifesting a text message, for example, but why do they want to manifest that text message in the first place? If it’s from a place of neediness, what is going to happen once you’ve got that text? Most likely and according to what I hear, nothing, because you haven’t changed your concept of self. So more often than not, if you managed to manifest that silly text message, your SP is going to go silent again. Because you’ve managed to manifest an effect, but you haven’t changed the cause.

If you’ve lost your SP let this be your wake up call that something about you needed to change. A lot of people who I have worked with came to realized how much they have changed from the inside out, to the point that they don’t even recognize themselves. Because of that deep wound of having been abandoned by the person they love, it forced them to recognized that they needed to change from the inside out.

The best way to change the way you think about yourself, is by creating a new story for yourself. Telling a new story about yourself start with channing your inner talking, as Neville called it, which we call affirmations today. I know there is a big debate about affirmations in the manifesting community, but there is no need for it, as affirmations are natural, they are running through your head day in and day out either consciously or unconsciously. So, by controlling what you’re telling yourself all day long, you change your mental diet. And by changing your mental diet, you are changing your concept of self.

Many people came to understand that they needed to change their concept of self. And once they did, a whole new world started to appear for them. Many of them have already got their specific person back, and many others are on their way. Either way, they’ve gotten the most important thing back, which is themselves.

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Why You Need to Know Who You Truly Are https://www.manifestingwithsylviane.com/why-you-need-to-know-who-you-truly-are/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=why-you-need-to-know-who-you-truly-are Thu, 10 Sep 2020 13:48:26 +0000 https://www.manifestingwithsylviane.com/?p=497 Stop trying to change the world since it is only the mirror. Mans’ attempt to change the world by force is as fruitless as breaking a mirror in the hope of changing his face. Leave the world alone and change your conception of self. – Neville Goddard Do you know who you truly are? Do...

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Stop trying to change the world since it is only the mirror. Mans’ attempt to change the world by force is as fruitless as breaking a mirror in the hope of changing his face. Leave the world alone and change your conception of self. – Neville Goddard

Do you know who you truly are? Do your really get what the quote above is trying to tell you? Are you still getting made at the mirror?

Needless to say that most of you came to the teaching of Neville Goddard (the law of assumption) because you had suffered a loss. More often than not, that loss being a specific person (a romantic partner) who has left you. You were so distraught by that loss that you started searching for answers on the internet which eventually led you to the teaching of Neville Goddard where you learned that you are everyone pushed out. This was a brand new concept to you, but it resonated with you because you could finally understand what had happened, and it answered the questions that you couldn’t answer before.

However, while finding this teaching has helped many of you who quickly understood that they had to dig out and study the law in order to understand it more fully, some of you haven’t done that yet. And because you haven’t done that you have not changed your self-concept. You are still looking at the mirror and getting mad at the mirror. But the truth of the matter is that if you are not willing to dig deeper and learn about who you truly are, even finding the most valuable teaching that you’ve ever stumbled upon, won’t change your life.

You can run into the most marvelous truth this world has to offer, but if you do not apply what you are learning, it won’t do a thing for you.

I have run into people who have done just that. They’ve stumbled upon Neville Goddard’s teaching community because they have a deep desire that they want to manifest, such as a specific person in the majority of cases, while not exclusively, but they are not willing to put in the work to learn more and truly test and apply the law. So, their knowledge hasn’t improved at all. On the contrary, they’ve just managed to stay afloat finding it as hard as when they started, and at times getting even more desperate.

If this is you, it’s because while you have landed in the Neville Goddard’s teaching community, you still don’t really know what the law of assumption is all about and who you truly are.

You Can’t Serve Two Masters

You cannot serve two masters or opposing states of consciousness at the same time. – Neville Goddard

I speak to a lot of people on a daily basis. And when people reach out to me they are in a more or less “desperate” state to get their desire. But what surprises me the most it’s that some of them are still “serving two masters,” and as long as this is the case, getting what they came here for is going to be challenging to say the least. The price to pay to be in the position to manifest your desire on command is to buy the pearl of great price. And if you don’t know what it means, yet, be sure to read my article highlighted above.

You can’t be both feeling like a victim and believing that you are God of your reality. You can’t be both crying for help and be a master manifestor. You can’t both feel that you will never get your desire and be the ONLY one that can give yourself such desire. Yet, I deal with people feeling this way every single day.

How are you going to act as the God of your reality and manifest your desire as a true master manifestor if you still believe that there is a God outside of you that may or may not grant you your desire? If this is where you stand right now, then you are serving two masters. There is a conflict inside you. Maybe a part of you wants to believe that you are responsible for your circumstances, yet again another part of you is praying to some God to grant you your wish. This alone will prevent you to manifest your desire at the base because you have two opposite beliefs and feelings about yourself and about the world, that are splitting you up.

Maybe ask yourself the question, why is hard for me to accept that I am God of my reality, and that I am all there is? If you can answer such questions, you will be able to see more clearly what is stopping you.

You Didn’t Come Here to Get Your SP

Let’s be frank here, some of you are so entangled in the neediness for that specific person of yours, that you are completely overlooking how truly fortunate you are to have landed here, where you can finally wake up to the learning and the experience of knowing who you truly are.

You didn’t get here to get your SP back, no matter how hard you think that’s the reason why. I promise you that you weren’t born to try to grab onto another human being. You were born to have a human experience and discover who you truly are through that human experience. That SP search was just the excuse, the bridge of incident, to get you here. To get you to know WHO YOU TRULY ARE.

As difficult has it may sound for some of you reading this, your life is not supposed to revolve around another human being. Your life is first and foremost about YOU and who you truly are. Because once you get the courage to detach from all needs and neediness, and truly understand this concept, you will be able to be and have anything and anyone you want in your life. You will be able to do this so effortlessly, that you are going to wonder why you resisted and prevented this from happening sooner.

Stop Being Your Worst Enemy

You have nothing to do but convince yourself of the truth of that which you desire to see manifested. – Neville Goddard

I see many of you resisting the very thing that would free you instantly, and that thing is to surrender. Surrender to who you truly are and surrender to your desire as if it was already yours because it is. There is no competition, there is no 3rd party, there is no free will, there are nothing and no one against you. There is just YOU because you are God of your reality. The moment that you are going to realize this truth, you are going to be free.

You are going to be free from all human limitations. You are not going to feel that you have to do this or that, or that you need anyone, or that there is anything that you can’t do. You are going to know once and for all that your desire is yours because you wouldn’t have the desire in the first place if it wasn’t the case. Your fears, anxiety, neediness, and all such negative feelings will eventually go away.

This is the message that I’m trying to pass along to you through this blog, my YouTube channel, My Facebook Group, my Instagram and FB Page posts, and my one on one coaching of course. But for some reason, while it is so easily understood and accepted by some it is more difficult for others. But the only reason that it is it’s because you have not fully accepted who you truly are yet.

So, with this article, I want to encourage you to do your homework. Learn more about spiritual law and put it to the test. Once you do those two simple things, you will start experiencing what it means to be a master manifestor and the God of your reality. Your life will transform forever because you will be transformed from the inside out.

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